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Christian Dating, Faith & Marriage in Atlanta

Is a Church Really a Great Place to Meet Someone?

We think so. As Christians, people who take their faith seriously and are eager to grow in their walk make the best possible matches.

 

But how do you know that the person you are dating is the right person for you? In some respects, dating is almost like doing an investigation. Don’t pull out your Sherlock Holmes cap the next time you meet them for dinner, but many Christians struggle with this question. Marriage counselors are great, but that’s for people who are further along in their dating journey. 

 

What about those who are contemplating a serious relationship? That’s where Stoic Matchmaker comes into the picture. We teach Christians how to think and solve problems using Biblical principles and our Stoic Storytelling method. Through learning and practical application, you’ll discover how to think through specific issues and questions in your life. You’ll also be able to tell others about your discoveries along the way to your friends online. Our online community is eager to hear what you’ve discovered and you’ll learn their perspective on topics as well.

Dating & Christian Courtship in Atlanta

Dating

The word brings the introductory stage of any relationship to mind and refers to two people meeting in a social environment to see if there is any chemistry or romantic connection. Many people view dating as going out with a friend or as a way to get to know someone they recently met. It holds no form of emotion and certainly doesn’t promote a long-term commitment. It isn’t a relationship, but the precursor to any such arrangement. However, in our time, sexual intimacy is commonplace in the dating scene, but is void of any emotional connection. This is the way of the world and not a component of the Christian concept of courtship.

Courtship

Courtship is a completely different situation and is protected by the hand of God. For Christians, courtship comes into the picture when a man and a woman have a relationship. This process involves the couple getting to know each other and developing their relationship before they get married. During this time, emotional closeness develops between the couple. Many couples seek the wisdom of Christian counselors, parents, or mentors throughout the course of the pre-marital relationship. Sexual intimacy is off-limits and reserved for marriage only. The time before marriage is used to form a strong bond within the relationship so that the deep topics of life can be discussed between the two. This opens the door for a strong marriage in the future since important life discussions have already taken place.

Stoic Matchmaker promotes courtship for Christians looking for their future spouse and helps guide them through this time in their lives. Whether you’re already in a committed relationship and are exploring the idea of getting married or wanting to prepare yourself in advance of meeting that special someone, Stoic Matchmaker will improve your personal relationship goals and your overall walk with God.

A Few Questions Christian Singles Ask About Dating

WHO SHOULD CHRISTIANS DATE?

Other Christians.

“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”

2 Corinthians 2:14

WHO SHOULD CHRISTIANS DATE?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

Our audience is Christians. It’s the right pond to fish in.

What type of Christian should I date?

One who wants to grow stronger in their faith each passing day.

“Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation.”

1 Peter 2:2

What type of Christian should I date?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

We offer the right atmosphere for couples to grow together.

When should I accept another’s offer to go on a date with them?

“Promise me, O women of Jerusalem, by the gazelles and wild deer, not to awaken love until the time is right.”

Song of Solomon 2:7

When should I accept another’s offer to go on a date with them?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

We help you to develop your mind so you will know when the time is right.

Where should Christians go on a date?

Only places that God considers holy

“Be holy in all your conduct… because it is written, ‘be holy because I am holy.”

1 Peter 1:15-16

Where should Christians go on a date?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

You learn the Godly places where memories of a lifetime can be made together.

Why should I date to begin with?

To find that One partner for life.

“The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him’.”

Genesis 2:18

Why should I date to begin with?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

You learn the wisdom of having that One Trusted Friend.

How do I engage with the person while on the date?

Have the right material to talk about so you can connect mentally.

“[C]lothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble’.”

1 Peter 5:5

How do I engage with the person while on the date?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

Both parties learn the Bible and the Stoic virtues so you each have much to discuss without the need for pride.

Singles Looking for Their Christian Match

Stoic Matchmaker prepares Atlanta Christian singles to meet the person who will be their future spouse. We give Christians a roadmap that takes them on a journey to discover who God would have them marry. Christians may meet someone interesting in a singles group, but where do you go from there? As you learn more about this new person in your life, what important questions should you ask? What should your own preparation look like? What does courtship look like for men and women? These are all important questions that leave many singles at a loss for answers.

Stoic Matchmaker brings these integral concepts to the forefront of our community because let’s face it, this is one of the most important decisions in your life and you need to be prepared. Emotions can get the best of anyone, but these shouldn’t be trusted when making a decision that will affect your entire life. Our purpose isn’t to scrutinize other Christians. No one is perfect and we all have a lot of growing to do. We focus on helping Christians find compatible matches and to live their lives with a Christian mindset. Having the wisdom that God provides will ensure that He leads you to the best outcome in the decision-making process.

Life After the Marriage

Marriage is a contract between two people, a bargained for exchange where each person makes a promise to the other to be their absolute best during the marriage. However, as the years pass one partner may begin to shirk their responsibilities to the other. Once a hard worker always employed, one partner may decide to work less or quit altogether which, in turn, places a tremendous burden on their spouse. Another situation may be once quite frugal in spending, years later a spendthrift they become. Such behaviors may have presented themselves as slight misgivings during dating which went undetected. 

 

Stoic Matchmaker trains your mind to catch such instances while one is dating before the lifelong commitment is made and chaos subsequently appears. You learn how to evaluate someone as a trusted friend. You also learn how to build your relationship with each passing day which includes the long life together after the marriage vows are taken.  

What Makes the Best Christian Dating Site?

The best Christian dating site is one that will enable you to meet and learn more about other Christians while also growing in your faith before and after marriage. Our site promotes Biblical principles that allow our members to learn from others while also learning about themselves and who they are in Christ. Most importantly, we help other Christians develop their walk with God while also providing a platform where they can meet other Christian singles. One where you can meet the person and not a picture. 

 

What we mean by that is the ability to get to know someone, learn about their values, and who they are in their walk with God. It’s one thing to go places and do things together, it’s quite another when you consider how other Christians think through problems and what their responses might be. Practicing this level of problem solving through our weekly challenges will help you build your faith and depend on God’s will for your life.

And After the Marriage?

Additionally, Stoic Matchmaker is here for you after you tie the knot. Married couples are most welcome to continue their growth together with us and share their experiences and wisdom with those who are still dating. Married couples are the true mentors for those seeking the correct Christian spouse.

How Does Stoic Matchmaker Improve Your Relationships?

Through weekly practice using our suggested topics and community feedback, we help you improve these core thought processes:
  • How You View Yourself
  • How You View Relationships
  • How You View Situations
  • How You Deal with Stress
  • How You Control Anxiety

Our challenges are both fun and interactive. Seeing how others have thought through particular situations can bring to light ideas you may not have considered before. The interaction with other believers can stimulate great conversation as many times, different portions of the Bible can build your understanding of important topics that you face every day. 

 

As we know, applying the Word of God can not only shape how you think about situations in your life, but also uncover lies that you’ve been believing as 2 Corinthians 10:5 promises,

 

Casting down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.

Local Dating in Atlanta

Whether you meet someone on Stoic Matchmaker or not, there are plenty of great places to visit and experience in Atlanta with your potential match. Get lost in the globe of the Georgia Aquarium and see the many forms of aquatic life it holds. If you don’t mind heights, the 200-foot-tall SkyView Atlanta Ferris wheel could be an option. Each of the 42 climate-controlled gondolas can hold up to six people, so bring a few friends or do a double date. Atlanta also has a great ice skating rink for couples or grab an amazing dinner at any of the many restaurants. In downtown Atlanta alone, there are over 300 places to eat. For a slower pace to your date, visit the Atlanta Botanical Garden which offers the perfect setting for conversation as you gaze upon the sculptures of Alice’s Wonderland. Or you could always grab your hiking boots and trek out to Stone Mountain. Just outside of Atlanta, this mountain covers 583 acres and is the largest single piece of exposed granite. On a clear day, you can see over forty miles from the summit. Atlanta has many options for a good day of fun for you and your date.

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Frequently Asked Questions

We offer group activities throughout the week that both stimulate the mind and develop a Christian mindset. One of the unique perks that our members enjoy is the ability to discuss the experience of other members and how they responded to the situation. We also have the Beat the Professor Challenge which breaks members into two groups. They work as a team to develop a response in hopes of beating the Professor.
Here’s a secret. Stoic Matchmaker isn’t only for singles. Any Christian who wants to think more Christlike is encouraged to join, regardless of your relationship status.
Our community exists to promote effective Christian living by teaching Biblical principles that you incorporate into your life. With time, you’ll find that you’re more dependent on God to supply your needs and think about your situations from a Biblical perspective. This increases your wisdom and with our online community, you’ll build friendships that will last a lifetime. The Stoicess, the Professor, and the community will encourage you to live your faith out one day at a time and transform your life through the power of the Holy Spirit.