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Christian Dating, Faith & Marriage

Do You Have a Process to Find the Right Person to Marry?

As Christians, people who take their faith seriously and are eager to grow in their walk make the best possible matches.

 

But how do you know that the person you are dating is the right person for you? In some respects, dating is almost like doing an investigation. Don’t pull out your Sherlock Holmes cap the next time you meet them for dinner, but many Christians struggle with this question. Marriage counselors are great, but that’s for people who are further along in their dating journey. 

 

What about those who are contemplating a serious relationship? That’s where Stoic Matchmaker comes into the picture. We teach Christians how to think and solve problems using Biblical principles and our Stoic Storytelling method. Through learning and practical application, you’ll discover how to think through specific issues and questions in your life. You’ll also be able to tell others about your discoveries along the way to your friends online. Our online community is eager to hear what you’ve discovered and you’ll learn their perspective on topics as well.

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Dating & Christian Courtship

Dating

The word brings the introductory stage of any relationship to mind and refers to two people meeting in a social environment to see if there is any chemistry or romantic connection. Many people view dating as going out with a friend or as a way to get to know someone they recently met. It holds no form of emotion and certainly doesn’t promote a long-term commitment. It isn’t a relationship, but the precursor to any such arrangement. However, in our time, sexual intimacy is commonplace in the dating scene, but is void of any emotional connection. This is the way of the world and not a component of the Christian concept of courtship.

Courtship

Courtship is a completely different situation and is protected by the hand of God. For Christians, courtship comes into the picture when a man and a woman have a relationship. This process involves the couple getting to know each other and developing their relationship before they get married. During this time, emotional closeness develops between the couple. Many couples seek the wisdom of Christian counselors, parents, or mentors throughout the course of the pre-marital relationship. Sexual intimacy is off-limits and reserved for marriage only. The time before marriage is used to form a strong bond within the relationship so that the deep topics of life can be discussed between the two. This opens the door for a strong marriage in the future since important life discussions have already taken place.

Stoic Matchmaker promotes courtship for Christians looking for their future spouse and helps guide them through this time in their lives. Whether you’re already in a committed relationship and are exploring the idea of getting married or wanting to prepare yourself in advance of meeting that special someone, Stoic Matchmaker will improve your personal relationship goals and your overall walk with God.

A Few Questions Christian Singles Ask About Dating

WHO SHOULD CHRISTIANS DATE?

Other Christians.

“Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?”

2 Corinthians 2:14

WHO SHOULD CHRISTIANS DATE?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

Our audience is Christians. It’s the right pond to fish in.

What type of Christian should I date?

One who wants to grow stronger in their faith each passing day.

“Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation.”

1 Peter 2:2

What type of Christian should I date?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

We offer the right atmosphere for couples to grow together.

When should I accept another’s offer to go on a date with them?

“Promise me, O women of Jerusalem, by the gazelles and wild deer, not to awaken love until the time is right.”

Song of Solomon 2:7

When should I accept another’s offer to go on a date with them?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

We help you to develop your mind so you will know when the time is right.

Where should Christians go on a date?

Only places that God considers holy

“Be holy in all your conduct… because it is written, ‘be holy because I am holy.”

1 Peter 1:15-16

Where should Christians go on a date?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

You learn the Godly places where memories of a lifetime can be made together.

Why should I date to begin with?

To find that One partner for life.

“The Lord God said, ‘It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him’.”

Genesis 2:18

Why should I date to begin with?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

You learn the wisdom of having that One Trusted Friend.

How do I engage with the person while on the date?

Have the right material to talk about so you can connect mentally.

“[C]lothe yourselves, all of you, with humility toward one another, for ‘God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble’.”

1 Peter 5:5

How do I engage with the person while on the date?

Stoic Matchmaker’s Help:

Both parties learn the Bible and the Stoic virtues so you each have much to discuss without the need for pride.

Singles Looking for Their Christian Match

Stoic Matchmaker prepares Christian singles to meet the person who will be their future spouse. We give Christians a roadmap that takes them on a journey to discover who God would have them marry. Christians may meet someone interesting in a singles group, but where do you go from there? As you learn more about this new person in your life, what important questions should you ask? What should your own preparation look like? What does courtship look like for men and women? These are all important questions that leave many singles at a loss for answers.

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Stoic Matchmaker brings these integral concepts to the forefront of our community because let’s face it, this is one of the most important decisions in your life and you need to be prepared. Emotions can get the best of anyone, but these shouldn’t be trusted when making a decision that will affect your entire life. Our purpose isn’t to scrutinize other Christians. No one is perfect and we all have a lot of growing to do. We focus on helping Christians find compatible matches and to live their lives with a Christian mindset. Having the wisdom that God provides will ensure that He leads you to the best outcome in the decision-making process.

Life After the Marriage

Marriage is a contract between two people, a bargained for exchange where each person makes a promise to the other to be their absolute best during the marriage. However, as the years pass one partner may begin to shirk their responsibilities to the other. Once a hard worker always employed, one partner may decide to work less or quit altogether which, in turn, places a tremendous burden on their spouse. Another situation may be once quite frugal in spending, years later a spendthrift they become. Such behaviors may have presented themselves as slight misgivings during dating which went undetected. 

 

Stoic Matchmaker trains your mind to catch such instances while one is dating before the lifelong commitment is made and chaos subsequently appears. You learn how to evaluate someone as a trusted friend. You also learn how to build your relationship with each passing day which includes the long life together after the marriage vows are taken.  

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What Makes the Best Christian Dating Site?

The best Christian dating site is one that will enable you to meet and learn more about other Christians while also growing in your faith before and after marriage. Our site promotes Biblical principles that allow our members to learn from others while also learning about themselves and who they are in Christ. Most importantly, we help other Christians develop their walk with God while also providing a platform where they can meet other Christian singles. One where you can meet the person and not a picture. 

 

What we mean by that is the ability to get to know someone, learn about their values, and who they are in their walk with God. It’s one thing to go places and do things together, it’s quite another when you consider how other Christians think through problems and what their responses might be. Practicing this level of problem solving through our weekly challenges will help you build your faith and depend on God’s will for your life.

And After the Marriage?

Additionally, Stoic Matchmaker is here for you after you tie the knot. Married couples are most welcome to continue their growth together with us and share their experiences and wisdom with those who are still dating. Married couples are the true mentors for those seeking the correct Christian spouse.

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How Does Stoic Matchmaker Improve Your Relationships?

Through weekly practice using our suggested topics and community feedback, we help you improve these core thought processes:
  • How You View Yourself
  • How You View Relationships
  • How You View Situations
  • How You Deal with Stress
  • How You Control Anxiety

Our challenges are both fun and interactive. Seeing how others have thought through particular situations can bring to light ideas you may not have considered before. The interaction with other believers can stimulate great conversation as many times, different portions of the Bible can build your understanding of important topics that you face every day. 

 

As we know, applying the Word of God can not only shape how you think about situations in your life, but also uncover lies that you’ve been believing as 2 Corinthians 10:5 promises,

 

Casting down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ.

Dating in the South

Whether you meet someone on Stoic Matchmaker or not, there are plenty of great places to visit and experience in the South with your potential match. Consider Atlanta, the capital of the South, as it has been called considering it is the center of Southern culture and commerce. Get lost in the globe of the Georgia Aquarium and see the many forms of aquatic life it holds. If you don’t mind heights, the 200-foot-tall SkyView Atlanta Ferris wheel could be an option. Each of the 42 climate-controlled gondolas can hold up to six people, so bring a few friends or do a double date. Atlanta also has a great ice skating rink for couples or grab an amazing dinner at any of the many restaurants. In downtown Atlanta alone, there are over 300 places to eat. For a slower pace to your date, visit the Atlanta Botanical Garden which offers the perfect setting for conversation as you gaze upon the sculptures of Alice’s Wonderland. Or you could always grab your hiking boots and trek out to Stone Mountain. Just outside of Atlanta, this mountain covers 583 acres and is the largest single piece of exposed granite. On a clear day, you can see over forty miles from the summit. Atlanta has many options for a good day of fun for you and your date.

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StoicMatchmaker reserves the right to modify, update, suspend, discontinue, or restrict the use of or access to the Services, or any portion of the Services, at any time and without notice or liability.

We make no representation that the Services will be uninterrupted or error-free, and we are not liable for any interruptions or errors contained within.

You assume all risk when using the Services. You are solely responsible for your interactions with other users during and following use of the Services. StoicMatchmaker does not perform background checks on or screen any individuals who use the Services. Stoicmatchmaker is not responsible for any conduct by any user (yourself or others) during use or following use of the Services. StoicMatchmaker makes no warranties or representations of the conduct of any user of the Services. By registering with the Services, you are agreeing that StoicMatchmaker is not liable for any damages, direct or indirect, that may in any way arise to you or against you out of your use of the Services. Therefore, in the event that you suffer damages of any kind through your use of the Services, you agree to release StoicMatchmaker from any liability with respect thereof.  

Despite users of the service agreeing to these Terms & Conditions, StoicMatchmaker cannot guarantee that each user is at least the required minimum age, nor does StoicMatchmaker accept any responsibility for any content or other use of the Services by anyone under the minimum age in direct violation of these Terms & Conditions. It is possible for other users (including unauthorized users or ‘hackers’) to gain access to personal information about you through your use of the Services and to use your personal information for purposes other than those intended by you when you signed up to the Services. StoicMatchmaker is not responsible for the use of any personal information that you disclose on use of the Services.

STOICMATCHMAKER DISCLAIMS ALL LIABILITY, FOR THE ACTS OR OMISSIONS OF OTHER USERS (INCLUDING UNAUTHORIZED USERS), WHETHER THE ACTS OR OMISSIONS OCCUR DURING THE USE OF THE SERVICES OR OTHERWISE.

StoicMatchmaker is not responsible for any interruption, delay in operation or transmission, error, deletion, omission, communications failure, theft or destruction or unauthorized access to any user, member or subscriber communications. StoicMatchmaker is not responsible for any problems or technical errors of any telephone network, online service, servers or providers, software, computer equipment, email systems, technical problems or congestion or service interruptions on the internet or the Services or combination thereof.

ALL INFORMATION OR MATERIAL DOWNLOADED OR OTHERWISE OBTAINED VIA YOUR USE OF THE SERVICES IS ACCESSED AT YOUR OWN RISK AND DISCRETION AND UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WILL STOICMATCHMAKER BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY DAMAGE TO YOUR COMPUTER SYSTEM, MOBILE DEVICE, INTERNET ACCESS, OR ANY LOSS OR CORRUPTION OF DATA THAT RESULTS OR MAY RESULT FROM THE DOWNLOAD OF ANY SUCH CONTENT OR MATERIALS. YOU HEREBY WAIVE ANY AND ALL CLAIMS OR ACTIONS WITH RESPECT TO ANY DAMAGE OF SUCH A NATURE. IF YOU DO NOT AGREE TO THIS LIMITATION OF LIABILITY, YOU ARE NOT AUTHORIZED TO DOWNLOAD OR OTHERWISE OBTAIN ANY INFORMATION OR MATERIAL FROM THE SERVICES.

Any advice or content posted with the Services is intended for informational and entertainment purposes and is not designed to replace any form of professional advice. StoicMatchmaker makes no representations or warranties and hereby disclaims all liability for any actions or effects on any person following the information offered or provided with the Services.

StoicMatchmaker shall not be held responsible for any service interruption or performance failure caused by acts of God (or natural disasters), strikes, power outages, terrorism, embargoes, war, fires or any other causes beyond the reasonable control of the affected party.

The Services may contain links to websites of third-parties, including without limitation, advertisers, which are not under the control of StoicMatchmaker, and StoicMatchmaker is not responsible for the content of any linked website or any link contained in a linked website, or any changes or updates to such websites. StoicMatchmaker provides these links to you only as a convenience, and the inclusion of any link does not imply that StoicMatchmaker endorses or accepts any responsibility for the content on such third-party websites. Your correspondence or business dealings with, or participation in promotions of, advertisers or sweepstakes sponsors found on or through the Services (including payment and delivery of related goods or services, any personal information or opt-in contact information voluntarily given to advertisers and sweepstake sponsors, and any other terms, conditions, warranties or representations associated with such dealings) are solely between you and such advertiser or sweepstakes sponsor. You agree that StoicMatchmaker will not be responsible or liable for any loss or damage of any sort incurred as the result of any such dealings, including the sharing of the information you supply to StoicMatchmaker with advertisers or sweepstakes sponsors, or as the result of the presence of such advertisers on the Services. Please visit our Privacy Policy to learn more about how we use your information.

Opinions, advice, statements, offers, or other information or content made available through the Services, but not directly by StoicMatchmaker, are those of their respective authors, and should not necessarily be relied upon. Such authors are solely responsible for such content.

STOICMATCHMAKER DOES NOT: (i) GUARANTEE THE ACCURACY, COMPLETENESS OR USEFULNESS OF ANY INFORMATION PROVIDED WITH THE SERVICES, OR (ii) ADOPT, ENDORSE OR ACCEPT RESPONSIBILITY FOR THE ACCURACY OR RELIABILITY OF ANY OPINION, ADVICE, OR STATEMENT MADE BY ANY PARTY OTHER THAN STOICMATCHMAKER. UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WILL STOICMATCHMAKER BE RESPONSIBLE FOR ANY LOSS OR DAMAGE RESULTING FROM ANYONE’S RELIANCE ON INFORMATION OR OTHER CONTENT POSTED ON THE SERVICES, OR TRANSMITTED TO OR BY ANY USERS.

Disputes Between Members

You acknowledge that you are solely responsible for your interactions with other users of the Services and that StoicMatchmaker shall have no responsibility concerning such interactions. StoicMatchmaker reserves the right, but is under no obligation, to monitor any disputes between you and other users.

Should you have any claim or action against another user you hereby agree to pursue said claim or action independently of StoicMatchmaker and you hereby release StoicMatchmaker from any claims, liability and damages associated with such a claim or action.

If you believe that your work has been infringed and posted with the Services, please contact us in writing with the following information:

  • a physical or electronic signature of the person authorized to act on behalf of the copyright owner;
  • identification of the copyrighted work you believe has been copied or infringed;
  • a description of where the claimed copyrighted material is to be found with the Services (of sufficient detail to allow StoicMatchmaker to locate it);
  • a written statement by the complaining party that you have a good faith, belief that the disputed material is not authorized for use by the copyright owner;
  • a written statement by the complaining party, under penalty of perjury, that the information contained in this notification is accurate and truthful and that you are the copyright owner or authorized to act on behalf of the copyright owner; and
  • your contact details: name, address, telephone number and email address.

The above information must be submitted to the following address:

StoicMatchmaker, LLC
P.O. Box 1702;
10821 Red Run Blvd;
Attn: Copyright Agent
Owings Mills, MD 21117 USA

Please be aware that you might be liable for damages (including attorney’s fees and other costs) if you misrepresent any notification or claim that content is infringing upon your copyright.

Indemnity from Users:

User agrees to indemnify and hold harmless StoicMatchmaker, its officers, agents, employees, partners, affiliates, licensees and subsidiaries from any and all losses, claims, damages, expenses (including reasonable fees, disbursements, and other charges of Counsel), actions, proceedings, liabilities or investigations (whether formal or informal), or threats thereof, based upon, relating to, or arising in connection with any and all of the Services that StoicMatchmaker provides or claims to provide, as well as communications or meetings that you arrange on your own volition and on your own time with others who use the Services. You agree that you take sole and complete responsibility for any and all actions that might occur during any meeting, communication, or date.

You acknowledge and agree that you will indemnify and hold StoicMatchmaker, its owners, directors, shareholders, employees, affiliates, suppliers, agents and attorneys, and their successors and assigns, harmless from any and all liability, loss, demand or claim in connection with the content and all other information, material, messaging and communication you may receive from the Services and other users of the Service.

Limitation of Liability:

TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, IN NO EVENT WILL STOICMATCHMAKER BE LIABLE FOR ANY INCIDENTAL, SPECIAL, CONSEQUENTIAL OR INDIRECT DAMAGES ARISING OUT OF OR RELATING TO THE USE OR INABILITY TO USE THE SERVICES, INCLUDING, WITHOUT LIMITATION, DAMAGES FOR LOSS OR CORRUPTION OF DATA OR PROGRAMS, SERVICE INTERRUPTIONS AND PROCUREMENT OF SUBSTITUTE SERVICES, EVEN IF STOICMATCHMAKER KNOWS OR HAS BEEN ADVISED OF THE POSSIBILITY OF SUCH DAMAGES. TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES WILL STOICMATCHMAKER’S AGGREGATE LIABILITY IN ANY FORM OF ACTION WHATSOEVER IN CONNECTION WITH THIS AGREEMENT OR THE USE OF THE SERVICES INCLUDING CLAIMS SEEKING INDEMNITY, OR FOR ANY RECOVERABLE LOSSES OR DAMAGES ARISING UNDER THIS AGREEMENT, EXCEED THE TOTAL ANNUAL REGISTRATION PRICE PAID BY YOU FOR YOUR ACCOUNT DURING ITS THEN-CURRENT CONTRACT YEAR AT THE TIME OF THE INCIDENT GIVING RISE TO THE LIABILITY. IF NO REGISTRATION PRICE WAS PAID TO STOICMATCHMAER, STOICMATCHMAKER DOES NOT RETAIN ANY LIABILITY.

TO THE MAXIMUM EXTENT PERMITTED BY APPLICABLE LAW, IN NO EVENT WILL STOICMATCHMAKER BE LIABLE FOR ANY DAMAGES WHATSOEVER, WHETHER DIRECT, INDIRECT, GENERAL, SPECIAL, COMPENSATORY, CONSEQUENTIAL, AND/OR INCIDENTAL, ARISING OUT OF OR RELATING TO THE CONDUCT OF YOU OR ANYONE ELSE IN CONNECTION WITH THE USE OF THE SERVICES, INCLUDING WITHOUT LIMITATION, BODILY INJURY, EMOTIONAL DISTRESS, AND/OR ANY OTHER DAMAGES RESULTING FROM COMMUNICATIONS OR MEETINGS WITH OTHER REGISTERED USERS OF THE SERVICES. THIS INCLUDES ANY CLAIMS, LOSSES OR DAMAGES ARISING FROM THE CONDUCT OF USERS WHO HAVE REGISTERED UNDER FALSE PRETENSES OR WHO ATTEMPT TO DEFRAUD OR HARM YOU.

StoicMatchmaker and its contractors may use various ways of verifying information that users have provided. However, none of those ways are perfect, and you agree that StoicMatchmaker and its contractors will have no liability to you arising from any incorrectly verified information.

Indemnification:

You agree to indemnify, defend and hold harmless StoicMatchmaker, its subsidiary and parent companies, and each of their officers, directors, employees, agents and related third parties, for any losses, costs, liabilities and expenses (including reasonable attorneys’ fees) relating to or arising out of any third party claim that (a) your use of or inability to use the Services, (b) any user postings made by you, (c) your violation of any terms of this Agreement or your violation of any rights of a third party, or (d) your violation of any applicable laws, rules or regulations. StoicMatchmaker reserves the right, at its own cost, to assume the exclusive defense and control of any matter otherwise subject to indemnification by you, in which event you will fully cooperate with StoicMatchmaker in asserting any available defenses.

This indemnification also applies to group activities where we use software such as Zoom® and Skype® to record the activity for commercial purposes. You understand and agree that when software such as Zoom and/or Skype are used, that the activity is being recorded and by participating in the recorded activity, you agree to allow Stoic Matchmaker to use the recording for commercial purposes and for non-members (such as the member's family or friends who are shown or heard on the video momentarily), you agree to indemnify, defend and hold harmless StoicMatchmaker, its subsidiary and parent companies, and each of their officers, directors, employees, agents and related third parties, for any losses, costs, liabilities and expenses (including reasonable attorneys’ fees) relating to or arising out of any third party claim that may ensue from our use of software such as Zoom® and Skype®.

Law and Jurisdiction: 

This Agreement and any dispute between you and StoicMatchmaker arising out of your use of the Services shall be governed by the laws of Maryland and no other laws and shall be exclusively settled by means of binding arbitration / mediation using a neutral arbitrator (not a judge or jury) as follows:

  • The appointed arbitration / mediation authority will be nominated by StoicMatchmaker;
  • The arbitration / mediation proceedings shall be held in Baltimore, MD;
  • The number of arbitrators / mediators shall be one;
  • The language used in the proceedings shall be English;
  • The applicable substantive law shall be Maryland;
  • Any award granted shall be final and binding and there shall be no appeal; and
  • By using the Services and legally entering into the terms of this Agreement you hereby agree, accept, understand and warrant that you:
    • Irrevocably consent to the above arbitration / mediation agreement as the exclusive means to settle any dispute resolution between you and StoicMatchmaker;
    • Waive any objection you have now or in the future to its location, jurisdiction and terms;
    • Acknowledge and agree to give up your right to go to court to assert any dispute or claim (except for matters that may be taken to small claims court); and
    • Acknowledge and agree to give up your right to join or participate in any litigation on a class action or representative basis in a private attorney general capacity (or other similarly situated persons) with respect to any claim.

Refusal of Service

Stoicmatchmaker reserves the right to refuse service to any person for any reason. StoicMatchmaker reserves the right to terminate or suspend your registration at any time and for any reason, with or without notice, including but not limited to breach of this Agreement. Cases of fraudulent or illegal activities may be referred to the appropriate law enforcement agencies. After your Membership or Subscription is terminated for any reason, all terms of this Agreement shall continue in full force and effect.

As a Member, you agree that at any time you delete your profile from the website, StoicMatchmaker is under no obligation to continue to provide services to you as a member for the remainder of the payment period for which you paid, and StoicMatchmaker also reserves the right, at it's sole discretion, to refuse to continue to provide, or provide in the future, any services to you.

Privacy:

StoicMatchmaker respects the privacy of its users and processes information about you in accordance with our Privacy Policy which is incorporated into this Agreement by this reference. By agreeing to the terms of this Agreement you give your consent to your information being processed according to our Privacy Policy and you warrant that the information you give is correct.

You understand and agree that although StoicMatchmaker endeavors to uphold the necessary safeguards concerning your personal data, StoicMatchmaker cannot ensure nor guarantee the safety, security or privacy of the information that you provide via the Internet or in email communications, and you hereby release us from any and all liability in connection with the use of this information by other parties.

Additional Information:

Please see our Privacy Policy page and Training Page for additional information.

Merger or Acquisition:

In order to ensure a smooth transition of the Services in the event of an acquisition, merger, reorganization, sale of any part of the Services owned by StoicMatchmaker, StoicMatchmaker may transfer your personally identifiable information to a third party as part of such acquisition, merger, reorganization or sale without notice to you, provided any such third party shall be liable to honor the terms of the Agreement.

Modifications to Service:

StoicMatchmaker will use commercially reasonable efforts to maintain the full operation of the Services, however StoicMatchmaker reserves the right at any time to modify or discontinue, temporarily or permanently the Services (or any part of the Services) with or without notice. You acknowledge and agree that StoicMatchmaker shall not be liable to you or any third party as a result of any modification, suspension or discontinuance of the Services that it makes.

Email Communications and Test Profiles:

By becoming a user of the Services, you hereby agree to receive email communications from StoicMatchmaker. The emails sent to you by StoicMatchmaker as part of the Services may be relationship or transactional in nature. These emails may include but are not limited to, user profile announcements, Service announcements, Service changes, administrative related communications, newsletters, or emails containing commercial offers or promotions from StoicMatchmaker as well as third parties. From time to time, StoicMatchmaker may create test dating profiles or test networking profiles for the purpose of checking and testing the functionality of our Services to improve the quality and user experience for its users.

Technical Support Policy:

StoicMatchmaker is under no obligation to provide technical support for users who do not pay for StoicMatchmaker's Services.

Data Retention Policy:

StoicMatchmaker’s Data Retention Policy is designed to help ensure compliance with legal obligations in relation to the retention and deletion of personal information. Personal information that is processed by StoicMatchmaker for any purpose or purposes shall not be kept for longer than is necessary to provide the member with our Services.

As part of our commitment to keeping users safe, we have adapted our retention policy to privately retain information on deleted profiles for a reasonable length of time as may be required to comply with the appropriate law enforcement bodies in the event of cases of harassment, bullying or other criminal acts.

Pricing of Services:

We reserve the right to change the price of our services at any time; notification to you will be made by either email (example MailChimp), the homepage of the website, the Training page of the website, or this Terms & Conditions page. 
The pricing of our services is currently on a monthly basis where one month equals 30 days.

Buying Members' Writings: The "Get Paid To Date God" Campaign:

This campaign ended on September 19, 2023. It is no longer being offered.

Revision date:

This Terms & Conditions was last revised on September 25, 2023.

Copyright ©2023 Stoic Matchmaker, LLC.  All rights reserved.


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