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Fear Your Attractive Person Will Leave You

Fear Your Attractive Person Will Leave You

August 15, 2022

You finally got the catch you wanted. Gorgeous, mind-blowing. Their very presence with you makes you walk a few feet taller. That is until another looks upon them and appears to catch their eye. You become jealous and worried, and you think “how long before I’ll lose my chosen beauty”?

For you, you’ve realized that the eyes do the searching but one’s mind does the securing.  You see, you hold this person’s presence, their attention, and their dedication to you because you give them mentally what they need.

And what’s that you give?  “It’s wisdom, self-confidence, and your trust.” You train daily to build your mind, gaining wisdom to command your surroundings, and the self-confidence to triumph over any unknown. And you share these strengths with your Beauty, building that trust between the two of you that no other can match. 

So while others may say “There goes Beauty and the Whatever”, you and yours know it’s “Beauty and the Mental Beast” and you are their Champion.

Now using My S-T-O-I-C STORYTELLING method:

(S) How do you get over the fear that the attractive person you are seeing has more options than you do and will choose someone else?
(T) “You have power over your mind – not outside events. Realize this and you will have strength”. Marcus Aurelius
“There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear.” Book of 1 John
(O) I decided not to let such thoughts take over my mind as I keep moving forward in gaining self-confidence.
(I) Once I realized that I had no control over what another does, I continued my journey of wisdom. 
(C) The character trait I improved was viewing myself as a mental champion. 

The Stoicess’ Secret?
When dating out of your league, realize Only YOU have what they need.

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