StoicMatchmaker is a Dating and Networking website designed from a woman’s perspective based on the Stoic virtues – justice, courage, moderation, and wisdom.
THE “STOIC” SCIENCE
Here’s the “Stoic” Science If You Wish to Read
A Stoic Thinks Differently About Dating– They Use “Nature“.
From a Stoic perspective, the correct action is doing things according to nature.
Nature teaches us that dating is performed by all animals.
Animals include the human species, so involvement in the dating ritual is the correct action for Stoics; It is good.
FEMALES CHOOSE THE MATE
But how should we go about performing this dating ritual?
The dating ritual of animals generally indicates females are the selecting mate — females choose the mate!
So what about Humans when SEEKING A SPOUSE?
Females choose a mate who will give them offspring that will do well in life; the child’s well-being is paramount.
Well-being is based on high general fitness.
What would you consider as high general fitness ?
Good looks or Smarts ?
High General Fitness = SMARTS
Smarts is the answer when considering the well-being of ones’ offspring in today’s world.
Today’s world ranks “SMARTS” highly — High Intelligence (a thinker/problem solver, a good education, with mental well-being) — That’s what parents desire for their children.
However, we’re humans, so we tend to compromise on SMARTS when “playing the field” (dating for fun) if the date is physically attractive.
So physical attractiveness wins when dating for fun!
This concept fascinates me considering dating sites spend so much time trying to match individuals based on “mental” characteristics (such as likes or dislikes) that the two individuals share… When for the most part, It’s About Looks when dating for fun.
HOW DOES STOICMATCHMAKER HELP YOU?
BEST FISHING POND
We offer you the “best pond to fish in” when looking for a partner having SMARTS (high general fitness).
SMARTS is what YOU WANT as a parent because in today’s jungle, YOU value the Well-being of your offspring.
PREPARING YOUR “MIND”
The Well-being of your offspring is NOT based on StoicMatchmaker® “matching you up” with another based on a lengthy questionnaire;
Instead, (a) we prepare Your mind to make the best selection as well as (b) give you the best fishing hole within which to fish.
So enjoy your time on other dating sites.
We’ll be here when you’re ready to settle down and get serious about a potential partner.
STOIC STORYTELLING PREPARES YOUR “MIND”
StoicMatchmaker® will share with You, our member, weekly StoicStorytelling.
StoicStorytelling is how we “Prepare Your Mind”.
We use StoicStorytelling to apply Stoic principles to relationships.
Relationships need StoicStorytelling.
StoicStorytelling is one of the most powerful ways for us to remember “what to do” when under pressure and caught off-guard because StoicStorytelling is “Emotionally Charged”– it stimulates memory of Stoic Principles when most needed– even when (or particularly when) dating.
Our Champion WILLISMAE
StoicMatchmaker’s® StoicStorytelling For Singles is based on Willismae’s life as she searches to find a partner, Her ONE.
One of our tales about Willismae is “He Shh’d Me” (see our HomePage).
In the future, if anyone ever tells you to “Shh”, we think you’ll remember the Story and give a grin since you’ll have a good idea on how to respond.
In return, we ask for your help in sharing your stories with everyone whether posting on Your Member Page and/or sharing on the Stoic GROUPS.
The Stoic GROUPS are also a place for Singles to meet new friends, give some advice, and receive some advice in return.
BEAUTY IS IN THE “MIND OF THE BEHOLDER”
As we say “Goodbye”, Let us leave you with a parting thought:
“Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder” is the perspective you may have heard.
But when seeking a partner for life,
“Beauty is in the MIND of the beholder” is a better perspective.
Use Your Mind to select a partner; Not your Eyes.
And be thoughtful about where you’re spending your time; you’ll likely wind up with someone from there.
Oh, BTW; one last piece of advice.
The advice is from Your Mom –
“Be careful who you date (even for fun); There may be a mishap and My Grandchild needs two (2) GOOD parents — Not One”.
JOIN NOW — It’s Time for a Change “OF OUR MINDS”