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The Importance of Living a Good Life

The reality of life after death is a fact that all of us should view with an inward scrutiny. There are plenty of passages in the Bible that mention two separate paths after death, one involving an eternity with God or one involving an eternity without Him. The Bible makes it clear that we have a date with destiny on the other side of this life.

Living a “good life” well-pleasing to God is one of the most important concepts all of us should embrace. For those that know God, the Bible speaks of rewards handed out for acts of kindness and love. It also indicates that our lives will be reviewed for what they were, how they impacted others, and that we will be rewarded according to our work.

However, stress may interfere with living a good life.

Does Stress Dominate Your Life?

Stress impacts more than 40 million people in the United States every year. It can dominate how you think and behave and become a driving factor in the decisions you make on a daily basis. Have you experienced any of these issues?

  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Stress
  • Discouragement
  • Hopelessness
  • Feelings of Sadness
  • Unmotivated
  • Disinterest in Life or Activities

These things can cause you to lose your joy in living a life well-pleasing to God. The impact can be devastating. You can quickly morph from living a vibrant life to a shell of your former self. Even worse, if you’re stuck in this mode for too long, you’ll begin to believe this is how things will always be.

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How Stoic Matchmaker Can Help

Stoic Matchmaker is an online community which helps people live their lives to the fullest. To overcome anxiety, you have to control your thinking and that’s where Stoic Matchmaker truly shines. While practicing our weekly mental exercises and interacting with others in our online community, you’ll change how you think about your life in the following areas:

  • How You View Yourself
  • How You View Relationships
  • How you View Situations
  • In Work
  • In Friendships
  • In Romance

You’ll be guided by the Stoicess who will help you develop a meditation practice so you can combat the lies that hinder your joy and ensure you live a life that is well-pleasing to God.

How Do We Accomplish It?

There are several ways Stoic Matchmaker helps you accomplish the goal of developing the meditation discipline in your life. As you grow in these areas, you’ll find that all of the below items work together to improve your relationships, how you view yourself, and help shape you into the person God has called you to be.

Spiritual Meditation

Christian meditation is a process where you deliberately focus on specific thoughts or Bible passages and reflect on their meaning in the context of God’s love. This practice heightens Christian communion for a deeper walk and personal relationship with God.


Stoic Matchmaker will help you learn this meditative practice to apply the Bible to your life. With a deeper understanding of the Scripture, you’ll better understand how to apply its principles to your life.

Biblical Spirituality

Biblical spirituality means to be born of God, be changed by the grace of Jesus Christ, surrendered to the Spirit, living by the Spirit, and empowered by the Spirit to draw others to life in the Spirit.


Stoicism (a philosophy) and Christianity (a religion) have a lot in common. They both highly value virtue and ethical living. Using these ideas together, you can transform your mind into a strong fortress where deceptive ideas can’t penetrate.

Infusion of Scripture

In practice, Stoic Matchmaker will help you fill your mind with Scripture. Through stoic philosophy, you’ll be moved to implementing what the Bible says, just like the Apostle Paul did with an audience of stoics in the Book of Acts.


Ultimately, the Bible isn’t only to be pondered. It is the guide for how to live. Stoic Matchmaker will help you become a person of biblical action.

Why Does Spiritual Meditation Work?

These practices of thoughtful reading and meditating on the Bible and God Himself mingled with prayer work together through the power of the Spirit to move us into deeper communion with God.


Both Christianity and Stoicism recognize that suffering is inherent in this life. Stoicism can help you deal with the realities of life and Christianity offers one thing stoicism can not: the hope of eternal life.

Ways Meditation Can Improve Your Life

  • Control Anxiety
  • Deal with Stress
  • Promotes Emotional Health
  • Enhances Self Awareness
  • Recognizes destructive thought patterns & behaviors
  • Generates Kindness
  • Fight Addiction
  • Improves Attention Span
  • Battle Depression
  • Improves Sleep
  • Can Decrease Blood Pressure

You’re Not Alone

Thriving Community

While your meditation and time with God is a very personal experience, Stoic Matchmaker has a dedicated online community to help you grow in your new discipline. You can chat with other members about the various exercises each week and discuss teachings and concepts that you experience everyday, but don’t find help with in your everyday life. Our community also encourages one another in their walk with God and the Stoicess will challenge you to grow and become the person God wants you to be.

Weekly Challenges

Each week, the Stoicess will present a quote for the community to ponder during their meditations. Don’t worry, you’ll learn the ropes quickly. You’ll be given a picture with the quote and asked to ponder and write about how it applies to you. We encourage all of our members to take part in writing their thoughts down and sharing them with others in the community through our platform. You may find that others have a different perspective in their pondering than your own, but one thing you’ll definitely come away with is the perspectives that the situations presented to you each week are highly relevant. You may experience them in your everyday life or have experienced them in the past. The next time you face them, you’ll already have an informed perspective through the Biblical lens of wisdom.

Group Forums

Share your S-T-O-I-C Storytelling with other members in our online community. You’ll discover friends who will also encourage you. A big highlight of sharing and listening to other members is a deeper contemplation of the topics which reveal understanding or perspectives that you may not have thought about.

What Stoic Matchmaker Offers

“Hear My Secret” Podcasts

As a subscriber, unlock every “Hear My Secret” Podcast from the Stoicess. This popular teaching addresses specific relationship topics and what the Stoic response should be.

S-T-O-I-C Storytelling

This is our premier method for teaching Stoic principles. Stoic Storytelling empowers the mind to face difficult circumstances and life challenges through writing. You’re not alone though. Our other members are implementing stoic principles into their lives too. This creates dynamic opportunities to discuss progress on the journey of life. We encourage all of our members to write and share a Stoic story with all members.

Beat the Professor Challenge

Team up with others and challenge the Professor on a preselected relationship topic. The challenge will ponder a stoic concept. How will you implement it? Learn from others in their journey and share your own experiences. Meet new people in this interactive challenge.

Socrates’ Challenge

Share with other members what you can live without in this daily forum. Members present an item they have decided to live without. Other members can see and interact with what other members have decided to do. As Socrates stated, “I love to go and see all the things I am happy without.”

Showcase Your Stomaytes

Join other members in a community group as we share pictures of our lovable companion animals as they portray Stoic principles. In this interactive forum, our members can share their messages and comment about the different Stomaytes. We identify who the real Stoics are.

Behavioral Response Series

A weekly puzzle game that will address a behavior and how to overcome it with a Stoic response. Our members use these to remind them of stoic principles and are encouraged to implement them into their lives.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Teresa of Avila, a Spanish nun who lived in the 1500s, believed that Christian meditation was a necessary step toward union with God. We have found that meditation is a great way to grow deeper in your faith, especially when joined with prayer.
We view meditation as a spiritual concept because it is focused on God. There are many different types of meditation, even some that don’t include any spiritual components. However, for those seeking to have their minds renewed through the Bible, it is an essential practice.
Meditation helps you grow in your walk with God because you’re pondering what the Bible says about certain situations you read about or encounter. Meditating on how Scripture deals with these can help you gain perspective and enlightenment. Through consistent practice, you will be changed into a person who has been shaped by the Bible.
As it has been said many times before, a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. The discipline of meditation is no different. With Stoic Matchmaker, you’ll find encouragement and growth along the way. Ultimately, the decision to meditate is yours alone to make, but we make it a smoother journey.
Reflecting on a situation bothering you using “The Virtues” & Journaling using our five sentence method is practical and very effective in calming your mind.

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