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The Right Reason to Get Married

The Right Reason to Get Married

October 19, 2022

The Right Reason To Get Married

When someone is in love with someone else, they may think that their relationship is going to last forever. Some people get married just for the sake of having children. Others might do it because of family reasons.


You may decide to get married to please your parents or because your friends want you to. If you are a Christian, your reason to marry is to have a companion in your journey to honor and serve God.


However, you will need to check your motives and make sure that you want to marry this person. Marriage requires a lot of work, but it is also a lifelong commitment. When a person has their own home, they can’t just leave whenever they feel like it. You’ll need to work together to create a healthy marriage.


You should find out what your spouse likes and dislikes. When you are in a committed relationship, it is important to respect each other’s feelings and ideas. Your marriage will be successful if you listen to your partner and treat him or her right.


So, think about how you feel about marriage before you commit to it. If you have any doubts about whether or not you are ready to commit to a lifetime with someone, you should avoid marriage at this time.


Once a person is head over heels in love with another, they may see getting married as the ultimate goal. Tying the knot is a big decision, but how will you know if we have the right reason to get married?


They Love Their Partner


Marriage symbolizes two people making a lifelong commitment to one another. That’s why it’s so important to marry because of love and not for any other reason. People who get married out of love are much happier than people who get married for any other reason.


A marriage is doomed to fail if the two people involved are not marrying for love. Many marriages end in failure because the couple’s initial motivations were flawed. If you don’t marry out of love, you are going to have problems when you are living together and when you are raising children.


Every person must ask themselves: “Do I love this person? Can I spend the rest of my life with them? Can I stay committed?” And always be honest with the person you are with. Tell them that you are committed to them and that you want to share your entire life with them.


People get married for all kinds of reasons, including acquiring immigration visas. A person plans to settle in a country for good, so they get married to obtain a visa that will allow them to apply for a permanent right to stay later on.


Sometimes people get married to appease others, and many couples tie the knot for no other reason than to start a family. A marriage is doomed to fail if the two people involved aren’t joining their lives together out of genuine love for one another.


The Relationship Is Supported by a Strong Connection


Romance fades, physical attraction wanes, and life gets in the way of even the healthiest relationships. When these situations happen, it’s good to have someone we can rely on in other ways. When choosing a partner, we should look for someone who is not just compatible with us romantically but also someone who is a Trusted friend.


Having a Trusted friend as your partner is the most important thing to have in your life. A Trusted friend as your partner will make you feel comfortable. They know everything about you. They accept you the way you are. They can relate to your problems. They are kind and nice, and will treat you in the right way. They will be able to help you through difficult times. They are there for you to lean on. They will encourage you when are down. They will be your mirror that will reflect the person you admire and want to be like.


You can learn a lot about yourself when you get to know someone who knows you well.


What It Looks Like


Like any relationship, it takes two to make a marriageWhen two people marry, they effectively merge their two lives into one. That’s why true love should be their driving force behind tying the knot. We see God’s unfailing love for us in the way that marriage unites two people. When two people love each other without conditions, happiness and fulfillment naturally follow.


When two people get married, they can look forward to a long life of love and friendship. They must share everything with each other. They must communicate freely with each other.  They must not be jealous of each other. The love they have for each other must never change no matter how much trouble they go through.


Each spouse must respect the other and not talk badly about him or her to others. Never be disrespectful to your mate and don’t treat him or her with contempt.


Closing Comments


Everyone has their own unique reasons for getting married, but there are typically three main reasons that everyone considers: love, security, and family.


Most people get married for love because they believe that love makes a relationship stronger and lasts longer than anything else. Love makes us feel like we have a purpose. It is the greatest force that makes life worth living.


God has given us love so that we can experience true love. God loves us because we were made in his image. Remember that Eve was made as a mate for Adam for God perceived it was not good for man to live alone. As such, marriage is a reflection of God’s love for us. A marriage should be built on that love – God’s love.


Your choice as a mate should not be based on looks. Choose someone who you like and who likes you. You should look for someone who is nice, friendly, good to you and someone you hold as a Trusted friend.


When you experience the love of God in your marriage, you will begin to appreciate life more and make life meaningful. So, accept God and His love for your marriage. Show love to each other by helping one another. Look to God, and seek His guidance to make your relationship last.

I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
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