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How To Create A Lasting Love Story How To Create A Lasting Love Story

How To Create A Lasting Love Story

How To Create A Lasting Love Story.


Are you looking for a way to create a lasting love story, a way to turn your relationship from average to exceptional? Do you want to learn how to enjoy love and romance forever?


Every great love story starts with a connection between two people. But how do you turn that connection into a lasting romance?


Then read on! In this article, you’ll learn the steps you need to take to make sure you create and keep a healthy romantic relationship.


Let’s get you started in deepening your relationship to create a love story that will stand the test of time.


Reach For The Moon


When you’re feeling romantic, reach for the moon with something special. You could give your partner an unexpected gift like a box of chocolates, or a bouquet of flowers. Or maybe you can do it together, but let them help you choose.


Be sure to make the gesture more personal by wrapping the gift in paper that has meaning to you and them. For example, if you’re going through a rough patch, try giving your partner a gift wrapped in a red ribbon.


Work Through Challenges Together And Grow As A Team


Every relationship will face challenges, but it’s how you handle them that can make or break your love story. Instead of placing blame or getting defensive, work together as a team to find solutions.


This will not only strengthen your bond but also help you grow as individuals. Remember, a strong relationship is built on trust, communication, and mutual support.


Communicate Openly And Honestly


Communication is key in any relationship, but it’s especially important when you’re trying to turn your connection into a love story. Always try to be honest and straightforward. Honesty and openness are very important when you are trying to build a romantic relationship. Make sure you’re both comfortable sharing your thoughts and feelings with each other and try to be as honest and open as possible.


This will help you build trust and deepen your emotional connection, which is essential for a lasting romance. You will have disagreements and problems to resolve, and you will want to share your feelings with your partner.


Remember to listen actively and respond with empathy, and don’t be afraid to ask for what you need from your partner. It is very important that you can communicate well with your partner. If you have excellent communication between the two of you, you will have a great relationship that will last a lifetime.


Spice Up Your Relationship With Some Romance Games


Playful romantic games will bring out the playful side in your partner and encourage them to smile. Try to find some small gifts for your partner like flowers or chocolate. Take turns playing a game with each other, like hide and seek, tug of war, or musical chairs. Yes, they are childish, but they do keep romance alive.


If you’re both feeling playful, play the same game together. Or if you want to keep the mood lighthearted, play games with a twist like “The Newlywed Game” where you answer questions with a partner.


Don’t forget about your pets too! Play fetch together with your dog or cat, and see how they react to the different types of treats you’ll give them.


Show Appreciation and Gratitude


One of the simplest but most effective ways to turn your relationship into a love story is to show appreciation and gratitude for your partner. Take the time to acknowledge the things they do for you, whether it’s making you breakfast in the morning or listening to you vent about a tough day at work.


You don’t have to wait for a special occasion to express your gratitude. Saying “thank you” and “I appreciate you” can go a long way in making your partner feel loved and valued. Those two simple phrases are all it takes to brighten their day. And don’t forget to show “physical” gratitude for the little things they do, like holding their hand or giving them a hug when they need it most.


Make Time For Quality Moments Together


In order to turn your relationship into a lasting love story, it’s important to make time for quality moments together. This means setting aside time to do things you both enjoy, whether it’s going for a walk, cooking a meal together, or watching a movie.


It’s also important to be present in these moments and give your partner your full attention. Put away your phone and focus on enjoying each other’s company. By making time for these special moments, you’ll deepen your connection and create lasting memories together.


Keep The Romance Alive With Surprises And Gestures

Surprise your partner with small gestures to keep the romance alive. It doesn’t have to be anything grand, just something that shows you’re thinking of them.


Leave a love note on their pillow, bring them their favorite snack, or plan a surprise date night. These small gestures can go a long way in making your partner feel loved and appreciated. They’ll know you always have them on your mind. Remember, it’s the “little things” that truly count the most.



Have Vulnerability In Your Relationship


Vulnerability in relationships means being open and honest with your partner about your thoughts, feelings, and fears. It means allowing yourself to be seen and heard, even when it’s uncomfortable or scary.


When both partners are willing to be vulnerable, it creates a safe space for deeper connection and intimacy. However, vulnerability also requires trust and communication, so it’s important to build a strong foundation in your relationship before diving into deeper levels of vulnerability.


Be Prepared To Make Sacrifices


Be prepared to make a lot of sacrifices for someone. If you’re not ready to do so with this person, then they probably aren’t worth pursuing. People who think that their needs come first will usually have a harder time being happy. Don’t be this type of person. Your happiness is going to have to come second to their needs to make this love story last.


So, if you are not “feeling it” with this person and unwilling to sacrifice yourself to get their approval, then they are probably not the right person for you. Don’t waste your (and their) time and energy in relationships that don’t have the potential to succeed. Also remember that this issue of sacrifice is mutual – both partners must be willing to make sacrifices for the other.


Keep God At The Center Of Your Relationship


The most important piece of advice in creating a lifelong love story is to keep God first. This means that you both should honor Him by striving to live holy lives, praying together, and making decisions that reflect His commands.


God must be first and foremost in your relationship. God’s teachings are that the two of you should love each other.  And by being truly dedicated to God, you each will always be thinking about Him, and this will benefit the way you act toward each other.


In simple terms, if you are serious about making your relationship the romantic love story of a lifetime, you must both be committed to Him.


Closing Comments


As we all know, our culture has changed a lot over the years. The “old-fashioned” courtship and dating practices have been replaced by the more casual “hooking up” methods, which are more common today. And although this type of thing happens more often than not, it can cause serious problems if it becomes a regular pattern. If you are one of those couples who are still trying to get back to the basics of courtship, and find yourself in the position of having a very casual relationship, then there is hope.


Becoming a love story is not just about finding the perfect partner or having a fairytale romance. It’s about embracing vulnerability, communication, sacrifice and growth in your relationship. God must be placed as the centerpiece of  your relationship.


By learning how to open up and connect with your partner, God’s love will allow you to create a beautiful journey of romance that will last a lifetime and, possibly, beyond.


May God’s Will Be Done In All Things!


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
and I believe in YOU

When The Relationship With Your Partner Becomes Draining When The Relationship With Your Partner Becomes Draining

When The Relationship With Your Partner Becomes Draining

When The Relationship With Your Partner Becomes Draining

It’s like they’re wearing a sandwich board stating “Doomsday” while crying out the message “we’re doomed”, “we’re doomed” for all to hear.


As they pass around more sandwich boards to others, the cries become very unwieldy. It’s a pity party indeed as the chanting, in unison, begins “Doomed, Doomed, Doomed”. No one is thinking, only complaining. Everything is a crisis.


Whether a friend, partner, or family member started the party, it’s times like these that you find extreme mental pain to be present. Sympathy and support are needed—not arguments and criticism. And for you, you disconnect from the drama.


From training with the Stoicess, you know you need to find ways to give support while focusing intensely on finding a workable answer to the issue. And with God’s help, once that answer is found, you reconnect with your beloved and bring them back to a moment in their lives, a moment before they started slipping into such undermining imaginations.


So, in the end, you both wind up finding your way through – together!


Now using My S-T-O-I-C Storytelling Meditation method:


(S) The emotional state of my partner is draining me. What should I do?
(T) To bear trials with a calm mind robs misfortune of its strength and burden.” Seneca
“Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest.” Jesus
(O) I stayed calm and asked the Lord for help.
(I) I realized that staying calm, while seeking and praying for an answer, is God’s armor given to me.
(C) The character trait I improved was remaining steadfast in my God.


The Stoicess’ Secret:


When your world begins a pity party, disconnect so your mind can remain more hearty.


Stoicess’ Poem: Partner Left Me Stoicess’ Poem: Partner Left Me

Stoicess’ Poem: Partner Left Me

Stoicess’ Poem: Partner Left Me.

Of all the hard times one faces in their life,
it’s a breakup with a partner that brings so much strife.


You work hard to make a living to share with your other,
but when coming home one night, they tell you they are leaving to share their life with another.


You’re caught off-guard, and such announcements are always made,
when you’re tired, exhausted, … it’s been a really tough day.


You’ll find them at the kitchen table when you enter the door,
all dressed up as if they’re ready to go somewhere; they look so beautiful, how could you not adore?


“What’s going on?”, You ask, as you muster the courage to speak,
“I’m leaving you”, they respond – passing mere inches from you, with so much cologne they almost reek.


While they’re heading toward the front door, you ask, “Are we going to talk about this?”
“The person I truly love is waiting for me outside” they respond, “My Real Soulmate – My ONE who brings me much more bliss”.


They suggest you two talk later when you’re not so angry,
a fake accusation, a gaslighting trick of theirs that you are quite familiar with, frankly.


As the car lights drift away, you stand motionless, without any tears,
the actor having played their role so eloquently, you were left stunned, so engrossed, and simply being all ears.


Jesus in His Sermon on the Mount, said “God causes His sun to rise on the evil and the good”,
so you know the sun will rise as you decide to go about your day tomorrow as you should.


When the following morning arrived, reality had set in,
the emotions were unpredictable, for you were really torn up within.


You then forced yourself to perform the daily homework the Stoicess had assigned,
you found the courage to move forward as your mind became realigned.


For you realized you were still in control of the forthcoming decisions you would make,
remove your existence from this earth, continue in your misery, or use this as an opportunity to have a “Total Me” remake.


You thought about your value on this earth that God decided to have you placed,
thought about the other 100 million souls you had beat out to be here, so not to move forward and get through this mess would be a total waste.


You lost a beloved to whom you had given your heart,
but now you are free from the hands of the one who made it a blackened heart.


And as you return to the office the following day,
the news of your beloved’s departure, shared freely by them on their Facebook page,
caused several would-be suitors to stop by to console you in their apparent, but not your, dismay.


Yes, God’s sun rises on all, despite how some may act or be,
however, for you, it’s those forthcoming possibilities to keep your mind on, for they are the ones that always give much glee.


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
AND I believe in YOU


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5 Christian Dating Tips That Lead To Love 5 Christian Dating Tips That Lead To Love

5 Christian Dating Tips That Lead To Love

5 Christian Dating Tips That Lead To Love.

Looking to find a life-long partner that shares the same Christian faith as you? A relationship that lasts a lifetime requires that you love the person as much as they love you. In order to do that, you both must show interest in the other. This means that you need to communicate clearly and openly with each other in order to establish and nourish the growth of the relationship.


Communication is so very important. It can make or break a relationship. In order to be successful in communicating with your loved one, you must share a common interest in God. You must understand what they like and dislike. You should be able to recognize the person’s moods as well.


Being able to accurately predict how your mate will react in certain situations will help you to better communicate with them. If you are interested in getting to know a person better, then both of you need to talk about your religious beliefs in order to learn more about each other.


If you want to find a true mate for life, you will also need to know what it takes to attract and keep the attention of the other person. Being a Christian doesn’t mean that you will necessarily have to limit yourself when presenting yourself to another when it comes to finding a potential partner. You will find someone that you are compatible with just by being you.


Whether you’re new to dating or have been in the dating game for some time, I have a few dating tips that will help you make meaningful connections and find a compatible match to serve God together.


Get To Know Each Other’s Beliefs


The best way to find someone who will have a compatible connection with you is to learn more about each other’s spiritual beliefs. Talk openly and honestly about what your religious practices are and why they matter to you. This opens up an opportunity for further understanding and appreciation of one another–an essential element in building a successful and long-lasting relationship.


Realize that a Christian will not be able to have a good relationship with anyone unless they understand and respect the religion of that person. If you don’t understand that person’s belief system, you will not understand what makes them tick. When you know your partner’s belief system, you will be able to understand their behavior better.


So when you meet someone, you should make the effort to discover more about their religion and their personal beliefs. If they do not share your religion, then you should avoid getting too close to them. This is because a person with a different religion will not understand you and might think that you are weird.


Also, if you and your partner share the same religion, then you will have the best time in your life together. You will be able to understand each other’s feelings. You can communicate with one another more easily.


So, if you want a successful long-lasting relationship, you should always be open about your religion and your beliefs. You should not hide them or pretend that they do not exist. This will help you to understand each other better and will make you able to work together towards a common goal even when problems in the relationship arise.


You will also find it easy to talk to your partner because you know the background behind your beliefs. When you both know where the other came from, you are in a better position to appreciate where you are going together.


Pray For Each Other Together


One great way to get closer as a couple and build a connection based in faith is to share in prayer together. Consider praying together at the beginning of your date or taking time out of your day together for joint prayer sessions. An example would be when you are having a snack or meal together. Pray and thank God for the nourishment you are about to receive.


Take turns leading each other through prayers or simply have one partner do all the talking while the other follows in quiet reflection. The closeness this can bring is invaluable and leads directly to a better understanding of yourself, your partner, and your faith.


Praying with someone else is also a wonderful way to share your thoughts and feelings. It can be a real bonding experience between you and your loved one as each of you pray for the other. It can also help you to develop a stronger relationship with God. God has given us the gift of prayer. In fact, he created us to have a close relationship with Him.


You and your loved one can pray together for guidance, support, and protection. Praying together is a wonderful way to encourage each other, strengthen your relationship, and grow closer as a couple. It’s a great way to connect to God, and it can bring comfort and peace to both of you.


We’re all different and unique, and that makes our relationships interesting and enjoyable. Praying together with your loved one will help to improve your relationships. Praying together brings you closer to each other and makes you better people. You and your loved one will enjoy having these moments to spend together.


Prayer is an important part of a healthy relationship. It gives you and your loved one a chance to talk about things that you may not usually talk about. This can be good for your relationship.


So remember, one of the greatest gifts you can give your partner is to pray for them when you pray aloud together. You will find it’s a very touching moment for both of you. It is a wonderful way to express your love and devotion to another. It can give you a chance to ask God to bless the person you are giving it to.


You will be expressing your thoughts and feelings about your partner and will have their full attention. There is no better way to create a wonderful bond with another than to pray for them aloud when together.


Become A Team Learning About God’s Word


As Christians, what we believe about Scripture is incredibly important. To cultivate your relationship’s spiritual health, make sure to become a team learning about God’s Word together.


Learning about God’s Word together should be an important part of your relationship. If you want to cultivate a growing relationship, you must always stay close to God. Read His Word together every day, and ask for wisdom to guide you in how to live. It will be much easier for you to grow spiritually if you share your beliefs and thoughts with your partner.


This allows you to talk about your beliefs and your thoughts so you can strengthen your relationship. Share your feelings and views with your partner.  You should try to have open communication about your thoughts and feelings, regardless of what they are. But be courteous and never say “I don’t like that” or “I hate that.” Don’t force your opinions or push your beliefs on your partner. Instead, communicate with kindness.


Take turns researching different topics and discussing them over Bible study sessions together. One person can read the Bible and discuss what he has learned with his partner. In turn, the other person should talk about his own experiences and insights. This should lead to more discussions on the same topic.


This type of session is very helpful when it comes to strengthening a relationship. You’ll also find you’ll have fun together in these sessions as you learn more about each other. It doesn’t matter whether these Bible study sessions are done at home or in church.


Just remember that both of you need to take turns talking about the Bible while the other shares their experiences. Believe you me, you’ll learn more about the Bible and it will become easier for you to understand each other following such sessions. So, learn more about God and grow as a couple as Christians, together!


Spend Quality Time Together Doing Positive Activities Outside Church


Going to church or Bible study is an important part of a relationship’s spiritual health. In fact, going to church and Bible studies should be a priority.


However, when it comes to Christian dating, it’s important that you also spend quality time together outside of the religious environment. Christian dating is about two people developing a close relationship. One thing that can really help you to make your relationship stronger is going out for fun together as a couple.


Find activities such as hiking, watching movies and having dinner that both you and your partner enjoy doing. Doing these activities together will help foster a strong foundation that’s filled with compassion and understanding for each other.


And whether you’re at a restaurant, a movie theater, a hiking trail or a park, be sure you are spending time with each other and enjoying each other’s company by NOT being on the cell phone. In fact, I suggest you turn off the cell phones when spending quality time together. For complete concentration on the other during these special outings without interruptions will build your love for each other.


Additionally, spending quality time together will help you to understand your partner and appreciate him or her better. It will also help you to know what he or she likes and dislikes so that you can become closer to each other.


Remember, a good Christian dating relationship starts with a foundation built on honesty, trust, respect, compassion, and understanding for each other. None of these quality traits can be demonstrated without excellent Communication!


Love Is An Act Of Faith, Not Just Feelings Or Chemistry


Dating in a Christian world can be hard, but real love is never easy. It’s hard to define what love really is, but many people feel that they know what love is and how it works. But do they really?


There are many different types of love, such as romantic love and friendship love. When you date someone, you may or may not develop feelings for him or her quickly whereas others may develop the feeling of love very quickly. Additionally, people may find that their feelings change over time for another, which may make it difficult for them to keep up with true feelings for that person.


So, as a Christian, how do you know if you can have lasting love, a love for your lifetime together as a couple?


Although there will be physical and emotional chemistry between two people, the difference between a fleeting romance and a lasting journey of true love is faith. It’s important to stay positive and nurture your faith in God in order to bring peace into your relationship.


By keeping God at the centerpiece of your relationship, you will create a strong foundation for your relationship. Such will also help you to live out your spiritual destiny with the one you love.


Additionally, remember that loving someone takes a lot of hard work. Think about when you were a youngster and the times you literally “hated” your parents. You may have even contemplated running away, but soon you realized that they loved you even though they didn’t give you what you wanted (or permission to do something you wanted).


The same is with your partner. During good times and bad times with your partner, you first must believe in yourself and send your feelings to God for His guidance. Even through difficult times, you need to keep your partner at the forefront of your mind knowing that you love them and they love you, and do your best to make your partner happy while continuing to communicate with each other by sharing of your respective hopes and dreams.


Closing Comments


So, what is True Love?

A lot of people never learn what true love really means. It’s not just about feeling and emotions. You must understand that it’s a much deeper emotion than just feelings and chemistry. To find true love you both need to put God first in your life in order to be able to make your relationship last. You need to make sure that you don’t put other things in the way of your faith.


Your love as a couple should be guided by your faith, and that means you must read the Bible. When reading the Bible, you can, as a couple, understand God’s plan for your relationship and what your purpose is here on earth. You see, I believe God has put every couple together to serve a purpose for Him.


True love began with God and if, as a couple, you don’t know who God is, it will be difficult for you to have a deep and meaningful relationship with Him and to each other.


Once you figure out the purpose of your relationship to serve Him, you’ll understand the meaning of true love. And when you have true love, you will be thinking about your significant other constantly and doing everything possible to be the best partner you can possibly be while fulfilling God’s desire for you AS A COUPLE.


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
and I believe in YOU

How to Date with a Christian Meaning in Mind How to Date with a Christian Meaning in Mind

How to Date with a Christian Meaning in Mind

How to Date with a Christian Meaning in Mind

Dating isn’t something you just go out and do. There are certain rules that you should follow before you date someone. You should know what it means to be a Christian and you should have the right intentions. If you are thinking about dating someone, it is important that you read the Bible to learn about God’s view of relationships and what God expects of you.


It is also helpful to look up the meanings of words in the Bible. Doing this will help you understand what is being said and how it relates to your relationship with God. It also tells you that those who are blessed by God are the ones who obey him. This is the way that you should live your life.


Read Matthew 5 and listen to Jesus’ words. He tells us that His law is easy to understand. He gives us the guidelines on how to live. He wants to protect His children.


Remember Your Christian Values


With the above thoughts in mind, you know it is important to remember your Christian values when dating, and always strive to demonstrate respect, thoughtfulness, commitment, and honesty in your interactions. Remembering God and seeking spiritual guidance while you date is key to making sure that you’re honoring Him. Other aspects may include volunteering or attending church together as a couple. Being able to practice acts of service together strengthens and unifies relationships.


Dating is a very important part of life. It is a time when two people can get to know each other better. You will be spending a lot of time together as you date. You both should always be careful when you talk to one another. Be careful of what you say and how you say it. Never use foul language, and don’t swear.


There are many other ways to offend your partner besides using foul language. You might say something that makes the other person feel like they have offended you when they didn’t mean to. You could say something that you didn’t mean to say.


Sometimes people take offense when someone says something that doesn’t really offend them. People who swear too much and say things that they really don’t mean usually don’t care about how they come across. Such people typically have problems with their self-esteem and respect for others.


Your words can be harmful to you as well as to your partner. You should always be considerate when you are talking to your partner. Always think before you speak, and avoid swearing.


Swearing is a bad habit that people develop when they are angry. If you learn to control your temper, you’ll avoid saying things that you will regret later. You should never swear at your partner.


Focus on Having Fun with One another


While it’s important to keep your dating goals in mind and stay focused on your spiritual beliefs, it’s also important to remember that dating should still be fun. Spend quality time together learning new things, discovering new locations, or taking part in activities you both enjoy.


Focus on having a good time and truly getting to know one another without any expectations or pressures. This helps keep the relationship exciting, enjoyable, and can help form the bond between the two of you in a positive way.


A relationship can be great if you are willing to share your thoughts, ideas, feelings, hopes, and dreams with your partner. This way, you can create a connection that is special and unique. It can be an experience that you will cherish for the rest of your lives.


You should always put yourself in your partner’s shoes when you are thinking about a particular issue or problem. When you do, you will learn something new about your partner. You will also find out what your partner thinks about different issues.


You should always try to see the good in your partner. If you have a positive outlook, you can make it easier for your partner to do the same. You should always make sure that you are being honest and that you are showing your true feelings. When you do this, you will see that your partner will do the same.


There are certain similarities in our ways of living that, when common between you and your partner, will make your time spent together much better. If you have a partner who is different from you, you should talk to him or her about what you like and dislike about his or her personality. Your partner should do the same for you. Find out how you can work together to get along better so your relationship can be fun as you grow this relationship together.


Don’t Give Into Temptation


Temptations do arise when dating someone, and it’s easy to become distracted by the excitement of getting to know one another. Stick to your intentions by avoiding situations that could lead to temptation, such as being alone in a secluded area or staying out until late at night. Remember, staying true to Christian principles is essential as you date and will keep you on the right path.


When we start to date someone, we will be tempted to stray from our standards. This is because we deeply like the person we are dating and feel attracted to them. Our emotions will make us feel excited, and we might feel tempted to stray from the path we have set for ourselves.


If you are thinking about dating someone who has a bad reputation, it is wise to be cautious. You should avoid going to places where you might be tempted to stray from the path you have chosen.


If you start to think about having sex with someone else, it is important to avoid doing that. You should never feel guilty about your feelings because they are natural. The only time you should feel guilty is if you violate your standards of behavior.


You should avoid dating anyone who has a drug problem. This includes someone with an alcohol problem. Dating someone who has such problems is not a good idea because you may develop the same problem. You may think you can cure the individual, and, if so, be determined and know that much time will be needed (years not months) before you can be sure that the condition has been overcome. Remember, bad habits are hard to break and much time is needed to address fully.


Make Communication a Priority in Your Relationship


Communication is key when dating with a Christian meaning in mind. Taking the time to discuss topics such as your beliefs and intentions will help ensure that both you and your partner are on the same page.


There are a number of ways to communicate effectively when you are dating. Talking about important issues is one way to make sure that you and your partner understand each other. Having honest communication about important topics such as finances, future plans, individual responsibilities and expectations will help create a strong foundation for commitment. By having such conversations, you will be able to avoid problems down the road.


It is also important to discuss your relationship goals. Talk about how you feel about your relationship. Make sure that you are both on the same page. Be honest about your expectations.


Be prepared to commit to a serious relationship. Make sure that you have discussed your future plans. If you are both going to be working long hours, you should talk about your individual obligations. Both of you should be in agreement on whether to have children.


If either of  you is not ready to have a child right now, you should talk about this. It’s okay to admit your fears. You may find that one of you is afraid to rear a child. However, it is not a good idea to hold back on this. Tell your partner how you feel about children.


If you want to be committed to someone, you should be willing to talk openly about your hopes and dreams. You should be willing to share your thoughts, feelings and intentions with your partner. If you don’t, then you are not being completely honest.


Show You Seriously Respect Each Other’s Religion and Beliefs


Honoring each other’s religion and beliefs is a must when dating with a Christian meaning in mind. This includes respect for the type of Christianity each partner practices. For instance, if one partner is Catholic and one practices Protestant Christianity, it’s important to respect the differences between them. Each partner should also be willing to engage in dialogue about how their faiths might contribute to the relationship to ensure that each individual can support the other’s beliefs.


The right kind of Christian dating is when both partners share a similar faith. Christians shouldn’t think that this means the partners must practice the same religion. They should respect the differences between them.


If the partners don’t agree on certain matters concerning their religions, they should talk about it. The partners need to discuss what they believe are the differences between their faiths. After they have talked about these differences, they need to respect the differences.


It is important that both partners are ready to compromise so that the relationship can be successful. If either of them isn’t ready to compromise, they should stay in their own religious group. Christians should also remember that they each are individuals and they should treat each other with respect.


This means that neither shouldn’t talk badly about their partner, nor should they gossip about them. They should also avoid doing things that they know their partner will not like. If either of them doesn’t like the other’s behavior, they should let the other know it directly. Avoiding bad behaviors will make the relationship stronger.


Concluding Comments


Christians view dating as an opportunity to demonstrate their commitment to honoring God in the relationship. It’s a way to bring spiritual growth and guidance into their courtship and make sure that it aligns with Christian values. Knowing the basic steps of dating with a Christian meaning can be a helpful guide for singles looking for meaningful and life-long, relationship.


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
and I believe in YOU

Five Fun and Thoughtful First Date Ideas for Christian Singles Five Fun and Thoughtful First Date Ideas for Christian Singles

Five Fun and Thoughtful First Date Ideas for Christian Singles

Five Fun and Thoughtful First Date Ideas for Christian Singles

Dating as a Christian can be tricky, especially when you want to honor God with your relationship. But don’t worry — there are plenty of creative and meaningful first date ideas that are perfect for Christian singles who want to share their values.


As a Christian, you want to find a girl or boy who shares your religious views. That can be a little challenging, since people often don’t always believe the same things about God. However, praying about it can help you find someone who shares your beliefs.


Ask God to lead you to someone who has the same faith as you do. Then, you should try to meet him or her. A good way to test the relationship initially is to take your date out to an event to determine if you appear compatible. Over time, once you find out that he or she shares your religious views, you can feel good knowing that you have chosen the right person.


Regarding events, there are several fun things you can do together as a couple. Just try to make the date as much about learning each other as about having fun. For example, if you two want to go on a hike, you can bring up the beauty of God’s creation while on the trail. It’s nice to share common interests as well as common beliefs.


 Take a Class or Create Something Together


If you want to get to know each other and learn something new at the same time, take a class or workshop together. You could both take a pottery-making class, try a painting session, or sign up for cooking classes. It’s an excellent way to connect with your date while also having fun and being creative. Plus, you’ll have something tangible at the end of it all.


Also, you may find that the two of you have now created a new interest that you both enjoy. When you are dating someone, you want to be sure that you both have some common interests.


Joining classes or workshops together is also a good way to spend quality time with your date while learning something new. You’ll both have fun in the process. And you’ll likely learn something new about each other. The new skill you learn could be used by the two of you to teach to someone else.


Cooking classes appear to be among the favorites. You’ll learn some new recipes to share with each other when you cook together on your future dates. Dance classes are another. Or if you both like singing, try out for the chorus at your local theatre. Then there is joining a sports team together. Such activities as these are also a way to meet other new couples that you may decide to include occassionally on your future outings.


Everyone knows that the best things in life are free, and you may find a gift certificate from the local bookstore. They often give them out for free on special occasions. So, exchange the certificate for a book or a CD. You and your date can then read to one another or sing together.


Organize a Beach or Park Trip


Get outdoors and spend some quality time at a nearby beach or park. Pack snacks and cold drinks to make the day extra pleasurable, then enjoy each other’s company as you take in the views. Hiking, swimming, sunbathing—you name it! This ideal date is also an excellent opportunity to get to know each other more as you watch each other’s reactions and reflections throughout your experiences.


Having a leisure walk is one of the best ways to get to know someone better. I suggest considering a nearby park or beach. There are many wonderful views in these places, while enjoying some interesting sights and sounds. A place like this is perfect for just two people who want to get to know each other much deeper.


Know that enjoying the outdoors is a good idea for any type of date, whether it is a first date or a second date, a date that is going well or a date that is going poorly. Remember to observe nature and point out things to the other that you each see. You can look at the sky and see the clouds moving, the trees and flowers changing color, the people passing by, and so much more. There are many conversational pieces in the outdoors to share with one another. Spend time talking about what you like and what you don’t like. Make sure you talk about the positive things more often.


As you’ve guessed by now, one of the greatest benefits of taking your date outdoors is the ability to talk with one another. If the surrounding nature doesn’t give you enough conversation topics, then try talking about each other’s opinions on different topics. You can discuss topics such as religious beliefs, movies, books, sports, and politics. You can also talk about what you each did in the past. Talking is a great way to learn more about each other.


Lastly, make your outdoor event together memorable by taking pictures. There’s nothing better than having pictures with your date following the event so he or she will remember that perfect time with you.


Attend a Live Music Concert or Show


If you and your date are music-lovers, why not attend a live performance together? There’s nothing quite like the feeling of a room filled with people attending a show for the same purpose — to be inspired by musical artistry. From concerts to comedy clubs, there is something to fit every taste or mood. Attend one of these events and get ready to experience something special together!


Attending a concert is a great way to spend time with your date. You can also learn about the artist (from each other) and his/her background. When you are at a concert, you will be surrounded by people who share the same interest in music. You will feel the excitement of the audience. You might even find that you enjoy listening to music just as much as you enjoy dancing or watching movies together. Music is something that brings everyone together. It’s an emotion that everyone can relate to.


The best thing about attending a live performance is that you can see the artist perform live. This allows you to mentally connect with the artist (even if you’re not on stage with them). Hands in the air, swaying back and forth with your date beside you, and maybe even holding up lighted candles together can be a wonderful connecting moment to the artist as well as your date.


And before going to the concert, you should research the artist. This will make sure that you know everything about him/her. You will also find that you can anticipate what the artist will play next. This will allow you to enjoy the concert even more.


Tour a Museum or Art Gallery


Take your first date to a local museum or art gallery and explore the many interesting artifacts, objects, and paintings on display. This can be a great way for you both to connect over shared interests in history or culture.


You can have interesting conversations about the artifacts or share funny stories about an artwork that catches your attention. Plus, it’s a great chance to get to know each other better without any pressure of having to impress one another.


Have you ever wondered how different museums may be from one another? Well, think a moment. A museum is a place where you can find many different types of artifacts. You’ll find that different museums cater to different types of items. You may find old furniture, paintings, statues, musical instruments, and so much more.


Plus, museums are another wonderful place where you can have great conversations. You can talk about the artifacts or even tell your date a funny story about a particular piece of art. Like parks and beaches, the best thing about museums is that you can have a relaxed atmosphere with each other. There won’t be any pressure to impress your date or have a certain goal. You can just enjoy the experience of being in a museum together.


Again, if you want to make sure that you have a fun day, you should do some research before your visit. This way, you’ll know which museums have interesting artifacts. Once you’ve decided where you want to go, you should get tickets in advance. This way, you won’t waste time when you are already at the museum.


Visit an Animal Shelter or Rescue Center


Visiting an animal rescue center or local animal shelter can be a moving experience for you both to share, and can open up great conversations about your beliefs and compassion for animals. Here, you get the chance to give love back to the animals and make a difference in their lives by helping out. Some facilities may even allow you to take the adopted animal home, so don’t forget to make an inquiry before your visit.


Animals are so precious and wonderful. They simply need for us to treat them with kindness and respect. In the past, it was very common to keep wild animals like lions, bears, and tigers as pets. However, these wild animals were typically captured by people who did not know how to care for them properly. So, they usually became sick. This is why many animal shelters are there to help animals who are in distress and don’t know how to be taken care of by their owners.


There are many places where you can find a rescue shelter or animal center. Some places might specialize in just one type of animal, while others might help with dogs, cats, rabbits, birds, or anything else. The best way to find an animal shelter or rescue center is to ask around as well as doing an internet search.


If you and your date want to adopt an animal, you should check whether the facility is licensed. The reason is that you want to be sure the animal has been vaccinated properly and has not been abused while in the facility.


Closing Comments


If you are a Christian, you probably want to find a lady or gentleman who shares your religious views. That can be a little challenging, since people often don’t always believe the same things about God. However, you can help you find someone who shares your beliefs by praying about it.


Ask God to lead you to someone who has the same faith as you do. Then, you should try to meet him or her. If you think you have found someone that you really like, try one of the suggestions above together for a first. You’ll have plenty of time to chat with another. One of the topics should be whether he or she believes in God. If yes, future dates can be used to discuss religious views. After a few dates, you’ll likely know if you’ve chosen the right person for you.


And remember, having common interests is great, but having common Christian beliefs is the goal of most importance in your journey to find a mate to support you in your service to God.


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
and I  believe in YOU

Worried About the One You’ve Loved Most of Any Relationship Worried About the One You’ve Loved Most of Any Relationship

Worried About the One You’ve Loved Most of Any Relationship

Worried About the One You’ve Loved Most of Any Relationship

A real beauty in anyone’s eyes. A true gem indeed. Polished, straight lines, eye-catching, and gleams with beauty. You think to yourself, what would happen if an accident occurred? Can it be fixed? Do I need to buy more insurance? But what insurance covers my beauty never being the same again?


You see, some things in life are truly irreplaceable. No amount of money can correct, no amount of time spent on the repair can fix. Because, as humans, we are each unique, and irreplaceable. No one else looks like us or has the same mind quite like us. And in life, events happen, circumstances arise out of our control, and things are changed forever.


So, your training with the Stoicess has taught you to enjoy the time you have today with your special one, the one you’re dating with the purpose to marry. Live in the present because their presence is the best present of all.


Now using My S-T-O-I-C Storytelling Meditation method:


(S) How do I deal with the uncertainty of losing what I love most?
(T) Try to enjoy the great festival of life.” Epictetus
For God has not given me a spirit of fear but one of power, love and a sound mind.” Apostle Paul
(O) I decided not to focus on future uncertainties.
(I) I realized that I don’t know what will happen in the future, and should make the best of today.
(C) The character trait I improved was enjoying the present time as a wonderful present.


The Stoicess’ Secret:


When they’re “one of a kind”, cherish them while there’s still time.


Enjoy the Dating Journey Enjoy the Dating Journey

Enjoy the Dating Journey

Enjoy the Dating Journey.

If you are new to a relationship, it can be hard to figure out what it is that you should expect. Everyone has different rules for dating, but you may wonder if there are any universal principles. To enjoy a healthy dating relationship, you need to have a clear picture of what you are looking for.


If you know what kind of person you want, you will know if you are dating the right person for you. Some people are looking for fun, while others are looking for a long-term relationship. If you are unsure about your preferences, you may be looking for a new friend because as Christians, we date for the sole purpose of finding a mate for life. We do not “date” just for fun. instead, we have fun with a purpose. So, be clear about what you want before you begin dating.


Try to find out about your partner early on during your dates. Ask your partner what he or she wants from the relationship. Look for signs that he or she wants to settle down with you. Because you are interested in dating him/her only, ask your partner if he or she wants to date you exclusively. If you have concerns about your new partner, talk to them about your feelings.


The beginning of the dating journey is an exciting time for any new couple. However, it can be hard to enjoy a new relationship when you’re plagued with questions and anxiety. Questions like – should we get married?  Are they really the one for me?


Allowing worries to overtake you keeps you from getting to know your new partner and discovering whether you’re compatible with each other. But how do you stop yourself from being so apprehensive that you forget to have fun?


Keep reading for some tips on how to enjoy the dating season of a relationship and get to know your significant other.

Give It Time


Instead of putting pressure on yourself early on to decide if your partner is marriage material, give yourself time to get to know them as a person. If you focus on discovering who they are and what they want out of life, then, over time, you’ll know whether this is someone you’re comfortable with and can see yourself being with. Ask your partner questions that go beyond the surface level to spark deeper conversations.


Follow your instincts and remember that good relationships are built on a solid foundation of friendship first. And if the relationship doesn’t work out, then at least you’ve made a good friend who you enjoy spending time with.


Remember Commitment


Love is one of the most important aspects of human existence. Love can be found between friends and between family members. However, love needs commitment.


Start the relationship as a friendship with your partner. There is no need to rush into the dating phase. Talk to your partner about your feelings. Talk to them about your goals and aspirations. Ask them to reveal their goals and aspirations. This can help you both to understand each other better. If successful, and you both feel you can commit to the other, then you can move into the dating phase of the relationship.


Honesty Is The Best Policy


Be honest with your partner. Honesty is essential for a good relationship. When you have a relationship, there is no need to keep things secret. Open communication is vital. This is very important because it can help you to solve any problem that arises.


Honest communication can help you to make sure that your partner understands your needs. If your partner has a different idea, talk to them about it. Don’t let your differences come between you and your partner. You should also look for ways to resolve any problems that you encounter. In fact, talking things over is one of the best ways to make sure your relationship is moving forward successfully. This is why you should always open up to your partner.

Treat it as a Learning Experience


Everyone in your life has something to teach you, and that includes the people you date. When you’re looking for something serious, it’s important to learn from past relationships so that you have a better idea of what you’re looking for going forward.


For example, if a relationship ended because they weren’t on the same page as you about when to get married and start a family, you know it’s likely best to have that conversation earlier with the next person you date.


One of the things that is very helpful to realize is that everyone in your life has something to teach you. Your parents and teachers taught you how to talk and behave. Your friends teach you the importance of friendship and honesty. And the man or woman you love teaches you about the meaning of love and the value of commitment.


Thus, you get to observe other people in different situations and learn about their lives. All of these lessons will make you a better person. You should learn how to act with integrity and treat people the way you want to be treated.


You also need to look at how you behaved in previous relationships. If you made mistakes, you can avoid making them again. Learn from past experiences, so that you have a better idea of what is right and wrong for you (as well as by you). If someone you dated was too controlling or did things that you don’t like, maybe you need to be more assertive and stand up for yourself during your next dating relationship.


If someone you loved got too angry when you didn’t meet their expectations, then you need to set boundaries and stick to them. It is easy to think that you will not be able to be fair to your current partner because of a past mistake of yours, but you can. Everyone makes mistakes, and there is no reason why you cannot learn from those mistakes.

Talk to Your Trusted Friends


It’s a good idea to talk to Trusted friends about a new relationship so that you get a fresh perspective from a more objective point of view. Your Trusted friends know you best, and they can pick up on nuances and patterns that you might not be aware of. Try to keep an open mind about what they tell you and understand that their advice is well-intentioned, even if it’s not something you necessarily want to hear.


It is also good to talk to Trusted friends and family when you are in a bad situation or having problems with a loved one. It’s important to talk to these individuals because you need to understand your situation from different points of views. It’s important to understand how your Trusted friends look at you and the situation that you’ve found yourself in.


It is important to talk to Trusted friends about these things because they will look at these same things from a neutral point of view. A Trusted friend will have good intentions for telling you truth about such things. He or she will want to help and will listen to your side. Whatever the case, a Trusted friend will be honest with you.


You should always listen to what your Trusted friends and family say.  You should understand that they have good reasons for giving you the advice they do. They are trying to be helpful and they are very concerned about you. They love you.

Try Not to Take Rejection So Hard


Sometimes we can get into bad relationships because we aren’t looking at them objectively. For instance, you think that your partner loves you, but he or she doesn’t love you in a meaningful way.

However, you know what you’re looking for and what you have to offer – so if it doesn’t work out with a potential partner, try not to let it sour you on the whole dating process. Not everyone is going to be your perfect match.


Remember that it’s better to break up with the wrong person early rather than end up with someone who isn’t right for you in the long run.


Closing Comments


Most people will tell you that they like the process of dating. It’s because they enjoy experiencing the rush of a new relationship. The idea is to meet someone new and maybe fall in love.


But, it takes time and effort to find someone special. Sometimes, you have to go through a few dates before you finally find the person you are looking for.


And as you begin your dating journey, don’t forget to determine what you want out of the relationship.


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
and I believe in YOU

5 Date Night Ideas That Will Impress Your Christian Date 5 Date Night Ideas That Will Impress Your Christian Date

5 Date Night Ideas That Will Impress Your Christian Date

5 Date Night Ideas That Will Impress Your Christian Date

Looking for a fun and memorable date night that also has a faith-based twist? Whether you’re wanting to go out on the town or stay in for some quality time, these creative and romantic first dating ideas for Christians are perfect for any couple looking to grow closer together.


Going out for dinner doesn’t always mean going to a restaurant. You may want to think outside the box and go to places that are unique. There are lots of options for a first date that have a religious twist.


Maybe you’d like to go to a church or synagogue. Maybe you’d like to visit a homeless shelter or food pantry. Or maybe you’d like to check out a place of worship that isn’t your own. You can go with your family or friends, or even by yourselves.


The point is, you can have fun and learn something new at the same time. The first date is a chance to get to know your date. It’s a chance to see what kind of person they are. You can learn if they’re into sports, music, art, politics, etc. You should also take the opportunity to be yourself and to show your true personality.


And here’s a tip for you: Start planning early! Make a list of your favorite restaurants, bars, coffee shops, parks, museums, bookstores, and other places you’d like to visit. Make sure they’re places you both like.


Next, figure out which days of the week are best for you, and make a tentative plan. You can always change the date if it doesn’t work out.


Now let’s get into the meat of this article – those 5 Date Night Ideas That Will Impress Your Christian Date.


Take a Walk in Nature


One date night idea is to take a romantic stroll in nature and enjoy the beauty of creation together. Spend time talking and learning more about each other as you explore parks, gardens, or go on a hike in the woods. It’s a lovely way to unwind and connect while giving you time to reflect on the greatness of God!


Also, when you go on a date with your partner, you can enjoy some other great outdoor activities. How about a bike ride? Whatever activity you choose, try taking some time to talk and to learn more about each other while your in the activity. You can learn more about your partner by asking them questions about what they like and dislike.


Your partner can tell you about their hopes and dreams, and you can share yours as well. If either of you have children, you can visit some parks. It will be fun to enjoy some of the wonderful scenery and God’s nature with the children.


You can also go to a local garden and enjoy the flowers, trees, and wildlife. You can relax and get some fresh air while spending time with your partner. Just relax and enjoy each other’s company while viewing the delightful beauty of nature together.


It will be a great way to have some quality time together. Instead of participating in some activity, you may decide to simply sit together and spend some quality time while talking and listening to each other. Talk about your favorite hobbies or favorite sports. Talk about the different stories in the Bible. Such topics will keep you from getting bored because the conversation will be lively.


Lastly, you may decide to read a book together or simply sit on the park bench while taking a nap under the warm sunshine. Just don’t drool while napping  — one of those Covid masks can help (a suggestion by one of my website members).


Attend Church Together


Going to church together is a great way to bond and cultivate your Christian faith as a date night idea. Nothing is more meaningful than worshipping God together, investing the rest of the day in conversation, and deepening your spiritual relationship. If you don’t go to the same church already, try out different places and find one you both love.


Church isn’t just about worshiping God, it is about connecting with other people who share your beliefs. It is an important part of your life and is supposed to be a place where you learn to live for God. You should make time to pray, read the Bible, and listen to sermons.


You’ll find that going to church together with someone special is a great idea. Spending time together helps you bond and connect. You should take your loved ones with you when you go to church. Going to church together with your family and friends is a great way to spend quality time with them.


You can also try reading the Bible together as a date night idea. You can share your thoughts about the topics in the Bible as you study sitting beside an outside campfire. You can talk about what you are learning and why you think the Bible is so important to you.


You may also want to share your own experiences as you read the Bible and look for similarities. This can be an effective way to strengthen your spiritual connection with your partner.


I think going to church together is an ideal date night idea. It’s a fun, meaningful way to spend your time and grow closer as a couple with God as the centerpiece of your relationship .


Have a Picnic in the Park or Beach


Outdoor dates are a great way to take a break from the hustle and bustle of the city. Pack a delicious picnic basket with all your favorite food, lay out a blanket, and savor the quality time. Share each other’s stories while watching the sunset in an uninterrupted peaceful environment.  End your night with prayers as you thank God for placing each of you in the other’s life .


When you are having a date with someone special, it is important to remember that the best dates are the ones spent outside. If you and your partner are planning a romantic dinner at a restaurant, instead, pack your bags and head out. The only thing that you will need to bring is your appetite.


Take some time to relax and have a fun evening. You should make sure that you bring a little something special to eat. It’s also important to pack a small cooler with some refreshing drinks, so you can enjoy yourself and stay hydrated.


You can also have a relaxing, quiet picnic in your back yard. Your picnic will definitely be a memorable one if you bring along some of your favorite music.


Take advantage of the great weather and enjoy the view. You can also take pictures to share your memories with friends and family. You will want to end your date with a prayer. Thank our Lord for his blessings.


Sing Hymns And Other Songs to God Together


Singing hymns together can be a really fun and intimate way to connect with your Christian date on date night. You can try singing on the balcony, in the living room, or outside in nature. If it’s nighttime, you can sing God’s praises to the beautiful moon he created, together.


Choose hymns that are meaningful to both of you and don’t forget to add some harmonies! This will leave you feeling emotional and uplifted as you get closer while praising God together.


Singing together is an enjoyable activity that can bond you with your Christian date. You can sing in front of the TV, on the balcony, or in the living room. Singing should always be done in a safe environment, because you never know what others might think.


You may want to ask your date what type of music he or she likes. You can then choose songs that you both love and that will make you feel connected. Be creative and sing a song that has special meaning to you.


You can  sing together as a duet. Singing together will also help you to bond. If you are having a hard time talking, singing is a great way to get in touch with your emotions. You may want to ask your date to join you in singing a song about your relationship.


And, in addition to hymns, a member suggested to me that he likes to use love songs but sings the particular song to God. One of his favorites to sing to God is Air Supply’s “All out of Love” with YouTube blasting in the background. Yes, it’s an oldie, but great for connecting with God (together with your partner) per the member! You and your partner may want to try this differing approach.


Singing praises to God together can bring out the best in your relationship. This is because it makes you feel more connected, and you enjoy the moment more.


Volunteer at a local charity


Another date night idea is volunteering. Volunteering is a great way to connect with your partner and make a difference in your community. You can volunteer at a local church or charity as a couple, helping those less fortunate than you.


Not only will your relationship be blessed by doing something selfless but you may even find yourselves closer as you share and bond over an activity which involves purposeful service.


Volunteerism is a wonderful way to get to know someone. If you are having trouble connecting with your partner, why not do something together that you both enjoy? You can share interests and hobbies while volunteering. For instance, if you both enjoy sports, then you can volunteer at a baseball camp for young kids.


Another way to connect with your partner is to join a community group. You can go to a library and join a book club. You can volunteer as a couple at a community center. Whatever you do, try to enjoy what you do.


Don’t think about the money that you will earn. Enjoy yourself and have a good time!


Closing Comments


If you want to spend a romantic date with your sweetheart, you might want to plan something a little different than your usual date. You can try some of these Christian first date ideas that are sure to be romantic and fun!


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
and I believe in YOU


How to Find True Fulfillment in Christian Dating How to Find True Fulfillment in Christian Dating

How to Find True Fulfillment in Christian Dating

How to Find True Fulfillment in Christian Dating


Most people think that they will be in a relationship forever. In reality, many couples break up, or at least get serious with someone else, after a couple years. Of course, many couples decide to stay together for the rest of their lives. But you can do a better job of meeting the right person than you may realize.


Finding the perfect partner is a challenging process, especially if you are looking to find a long-term relationship. It is a good idea to think about the qualities that you want in a significant other. You will want to take time to think about the person that you would like to date. Try not to get too serious too soon. Remember, the purpose of dating is to find a person to marry.


Don’t feel pressured to give your heart away right away. Make sure that you have lots of fun while you’re dating. Make sure that you try to be yourself. Don’t try to change who you are.


It is possible that you won’t meet the right person if you try to change who you are. Be yourself during your first date. You don’t want to appear desperate, and you definitely don’t want to seem like a party girl or a playboy. You want to be yourself. You don’t want to try to fake your personality.


So, if you’re looking to start dating within the Christian faith, you need to get to know some of the best practices and advice for finding a God-honoring, long-term relationship.


Here are my tips for what you need to find and create a Christ-centered relationship.


Be Honest About Your Spiritual Beliefs and Values.


When you’re looking for a Christian relationship, it’s important to be honest about your personal spiritual beliefs and values. You want to make sure that the person you are dating holds the same beliefs and values as you do. Openly talking about your spiritual views and having an honest conversation will help ensure that you find someone who complies with your belief system.


Always be honest about yourself. Also, you should always make sure that the person you are dating is in agreement with your views and your morals.


Remember that a true Christian will follow the Bible and the teachings of Jesus Christ. The Bible says that God does not look upon sin with favor, but he judges it according to its own nature.


If you are involved in a relationship with a non-Christian, you may want to check out what the Bible has to say. To reiterate, it’s not acceptable to hide your faith. You should tell the person that you are centered in God with everything involved about yourself.


You should tell them that you follow certain Christian teachings. Tell them about your views on topics like abortion, marriage, and forgiveness. You should also tell them about your other beliefs on God. If they are non-Christian, you can start with the 10 Commandments. Share your views on each commandment and ask for their views also.


You should also tell your partner about your views on sex. As Christians, we believe that sex should be reserved for a married couple only. The Bible states that the purpose of sex is to bring forth children. Thus, you should not have sex outside of marriage.


Spend Time in Prayer Together.


Praying together is a great way to connect spiritually and deepen the bond in your relationship. Praying together encourages vulnerability and allows you to share your thoughts and feelings with each other. Furthermore, by praying for each other and talking about hopes, dreams, and concerns about life, you can better understand each other’s spiritual needs.


Prayer is a way of connecting with God. It is a way of showing your respect for God by talking with him. Praying together can also help you to appreciate the things that God has given you both, including each other. It can give you motivation to succeed in your relationship.


You each should have a sincere desire to pray for your partner. The reason is that prayer is a way of helping each other. You each should also pray to God for guidance and wisdom. Praying is something that you should practice regularly. Your prayers should ask God to guide and protect your partner from harm.


Remember that when you pray for your partner, you are showing God that you care about them. Such is why it is important to pray constantly for your partner. You should tell God what you feel about your partner. For example, if you love them, you can tell God that you are praying for them to know your love for them. Your prayers do not have to be complicated. In fact, it can be as simple as saying a few words to thank God for placing them in your life.


Share Personal Stories from Your Journey with Jesus Christ.


Sharing stories from your spiritual journey with Jesus helps Christian couples better understand each other’s beliefs, perspectives, and faith. By taking time to talk, partners can learn more about each other’s struggles and triumphs. Discussing these experiences allows for an open dialogue about faith and offers insight into how the other perceives God – making it easier to grow together in their love and beliefs as a couple.


Sharing your experiences with Jesus can make your relationship stronger. You can share your life with Jesus, which helps you both to better understand Him. It’s each of you sharing your spiritual journey with the other. It’s always a good idea to share your journey with your partner because, it is your desire, that they will join you on your Godly mission in this life. Sharing helps you to know what the other thinks and how they will react to certain situations. Each of you will gain a better understanding of whether the other is a good fit as a partner to share your respective journey with.


You’ll be able to get to know more about each other when you talk. Discussing your experiences with your partner will allow you both to become more close. You can even talk about your past struggles.


By talking, you’ll be able to listen to each other and understand each other better. When you talk, you’ll have more fun as well. You’ll have deeper conversations.


So, share your faith with one another. Share your struggles, as well as your triumphs, with your partner. Talking strengthens your relationship.


Before leaving this topic of talking, remember to put the cell phones away when you are together. How many times have you gone into a restaurant and seen both individuals on their cell phones during the entire meal, barely speaking with each other. Personally, I’ve heard that some initial dates follow this pattern through the whole evening. Let’s not let such behavior be you.


Participate in Open, Honest Communication and Conversation.


Creating an open and honest dialogue between you and your date is the best way to find true fulfillment in a Christian relationship. This allows you to grow together, create a stronger bond and develop a deeper faith through shared experiences. So take time for conversation – ask questions about your date’s spiritual journey, share yours as well, have thoughtful discussions about faith topics – anything that might enhance your connection!


And don’t judge. It’s easy to judge people based on the way they look, act, or what they say, but we need to be careful with this practice. This is something that people often do. Don’t be one of them.


There are many types of people in this world. Some people think that we should learn everything about them first before we talk to them. However, how can you learn if you don’t hear from them? We should listen to others and get to know them better. This will help us to understand them. If we listen and get to know someone, we will have a better chance to understand them. We need to learn to respect the beliefs and opinions of others.


If we are going to communicate with someone, we should listen to what they say, ask questions, and make sure that we understand what they are trying to say. We should treat all people like friends, which includes our new date, and they will like us as well.


Don’t be lax on listening to your date. This will help you to understand them better. We should share our views and ideas with people and they should do the same with us. They will see that we are serious and interested in understanding them. This will increase the chances of getting to know each other better. We should also share our feelings with others.


Share Experiences With Each Other That Reflect the Bible’s Teachings on Love and Sacrifice.


As Christians, we believe that dating is an opportunity to glorify God by honoring each other and the relationship. This means understanding what the Bible has to say about love, sacrifice, and the way we should treat one another.


Consider making a list of ways in which you can do to honor your partner – perhaps attending a Bible study together or volunteering your time at a local activity that’s meaningful for both of you. By finding ways to live out these lessons together, you can strengthen your faith and grow closer in your relationship.


Being faithful to one another in love is a choice we make in the context of our faith. It is a decision that comes with consequences. Our faith helps us understand that we will face hardships as we are walking with Christ and that it will not be easy for us. Therefore, we must learn to appreciate the good things in our lives. We can’t ignore what is going wrong or what might go wrong in the future.


When finding ourselves in a situation where we are struggling in our relationship, we should ask ourselves why. Is it because we haven’t prayed? Or is it because we haven’t asked God for guidance? It is important to remember that the Lord can provide us with everything we need if we trust Him. Therefore, we should make sure that we have asked for help.


In addition, we should seek advice from other Trusted friends when we are having difficulties in our relationship . These can be people who have faced similar situations and have overcome them. They may be people who are struggling with something and are praying for help. Or they could be other Christians who can offer us encouragement and support. We should listen to these people and learn from them.


Remember, to be able to enjoy our lives and the people we love, we need to spend quality time with them. We also need to do activities that can bring us closer together. For example, taking a walk together outside is a wonderful way to experience nature, a creation of God, together.


Concluding Comments


When it comes to dating, it is important to do things that can help a couple to grow closer together. There are certain things that will make a couple stronger, and you can use some of those things to strengthen your marriage.


It is important to have time for each other. Take time to talk, pray, and listen to each other. Don’t be afraid to share your feelings with your partner. You should do things that will help you to understand your partner’s view of the world. Make sure that you get to know your partner. By doing so, you’ll stand the best chance of making this new relationship a permanent relationship with marriage.


I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
and I believe in YOU