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Brian B

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It can be hard for me at times, to put my thoughts into words. I wanted to take some time to reflect on the things I’ve been able to accomplish this year which without your help may not have been possible. I don’t want the reflection of just this year to take away from the countless amount of things you have helped me through over the course of my life. Those times will always be cherished, and I will always be appreciative of the love you showed. However, this past year has been a monumental stepping stone in my life, from buying a house, getting engaged, work promotions, etc.  So I just wanted to take the opportunity to thank you for the help you’ve provided on this part of my journey in life. You never asked for anything in return no matter how stressful the task. You’ve put countless hours into helping me with multiple tasks this year, and I just wanted to say, thank you. I know a mother’s love is lifelong and I am happy that I get to share that with you. Thanks for everything, Ma. I love you.

Dylan M

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I want to thank you, Stoicess, for the coaching and teachings you so willingly give. You have revised the way I conduct myself as a person, wife, mother, daughter, and friend. The different expressive knowledgeable options you have allowed me to express on your site from loving myself, family, friends, and even pets, has touched my household and way of life. There are many situations faced every day with the changes in times and the world. You are always there with words of wisdom with your stoic teachings that allow me to extend my observational awareness of being still and kind.

I struggled at work with my leadership skills. Especially the different generations and personalities mixed in a large group to manage. With your guidance, Stoicess, I was able to find the common ground with my sanity and prosper in my career. I am now a looked-to leader for the development of others under and above me as well as a strong stoic-minded person that enjoys the days of work.

There was a bad balance between work and home life. I felt work was overpowering my thoughts. That the time I got home to be the wife and mother, I was irritated to even take on one more argument or soccer-mom agenda. I looked to the stoic website’s daily teachings for those moments of clarity much needed. The words and situations learned from, help me find that calm place of not feeling life is a deadline.

Having a positive ever-growing strength to build upon by you and myself has taught me to not only control my thoughts and outcomes but extend the knowledge I have learned as well. I have come so far from where I was when I started with the Stoicess. I hope that you allow yourself the joys that come from her teachings and growth for you.

Katy O

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One of the things I changed in my life after working with the Stoicess is how I view giving.

The birthdays of others have always been quite a difficult time for me. I find that birthdays are very significant to many people I know and, in the past, I spent a tremendous amount of time trying to find the right present for the person for their special day. However, many times I appeared to have failed in my selection. It’s not that the gift was outright rejected, but I could see in the recipient’s eyes that I just didn’t “hit the mark”. And many times afterward, I learned that the gift was discarded or placed somewhere in the corner.

Nowadays, I focus on my own birthday when thinking about my giving to others. You see, I use my birthday to give gifts to others that share the day with me. If I’m at work on my birthday, I reward my co-workers with gifts. And for those that visit me on my special day, I also have special gifts waiting for them as well. The reason I do this is that I am thankful for the people I spend my life with, and I can’t think of a better way to show my appreciation for them. And know that I’ve never had anyone give me “that look” indicating my gift failed to “hit the mark”.

So, when I give you a gift for your birthday and you are not completely satisfied with my selection, I suggest you spend some time with me on my birthday, for the gift you receive from me on my special day will be most satisfying to both You and Me.

Thank you, Stoicess, for teaching me how to give a gift from the heart – a gift that others know truly did come from my heart.

Steve B

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I love the daily quotes. They have helped me navigate through some difficult times in my life.

Kelvin C

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I’ve found great value in this site. It has helped me to gain more control over my emotions and mindsets. The problems and issues that life throws my way are easier to handle and turn to my advantage. Keep up the good work!

Brian B

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From my growth with the Stoicess and her teachings, I have experienced achievement by tying my responsibilities to my goals.

Katy O

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I love The Stoicess’s podcasts! Keep them coming!!!

Delbert C

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Wonderful experience!! The stoicess is extremely helpful with my everyday trials. My mind is clearer and my thoughts are pure.

Katy M

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I love doing these puzzles. They keep my mind sharp and I learn so much.

Joan B

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Good stuff!

Dylan M

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This site is very helpful.

Bobby M