March 30, 2023
Are you struggling to make someone see that they belong with you? Convincing someone that they belong with you can be a difficult task, but with the right approach, it is possible to create a connection and foster a relationship.
Here are some practical steps to convince someone that they truly belong by your side.
The first step to convincing someone that they belong with you is understanding what their needs are. You don’t necessarily have to agree with them, but try to empathize and figure out what it is they’re looking for in a relationship. If you both are following the Christian Intentional Dating guidelines, then the task should not be too daunting.
Once you understand their needs, consider how you can provide that. Show them that being with you would meet those needs by providing evidence, such as examples of times when you’ve gone out of your way to show your love and care.
Allow them the freedom to express themselves without fear of being judged or criticized. Celebrate their unique traits, talents, and interests – no matter how unusual or different they may be from yours. Avoid making comments that could make them feel self-conscious, like comparing them to others or bringing attention to their flaws.
Showing someone that you accept and appreciate who they are is a great way of making them believe that they belong with you.
Communication is key in any type of relationship, but it’s especially important if you want someone to feel comfortable and like they truly belong. Take the time to have meaningful conversations with your partner about their day, their interests and goals, and any issues that may be bothering them.
Showing true interest in what they have to say can help make them feel seen and valued.
Show them that you truly value and appreciate them by complimenting them regularly. By doing so, you’re conveying how much you admire and recognize their valuable traits, behavior, and achievements.
A genuine compliment can mean the world to someone, comforting and reassuring them that they matter to you and making them feel secure about their place in your relationship.
The next step is to show the other person that you are serious about the relationship. Demonstrate your commitment by planning for the future together, scheduling date nights, and engaging in activities both of you enjoy.
Being consistent and reliable with your actions will show that you are genuinely interested in being with them, which will help build trust. Showing that you’re invested in spending time together will do wonders in convincing someone they belong with you.
Showing genuine affection and appreciation is one of the most important steps to making someone feel like they truly belong with you. Make sure you tell them how much they mean to you and express your gratitude for their presence in your life.
Take the time to appreciate the little things they do and show them that you recognize their effort – this will make all the difference.
Showing that you are able to take the lead and make decisions for the both of you goes a long way in convincing them you’re right for them. Be bold and initiate dates and plan outings before they have the chance to suggest it themselves. Make choices that will benefit both of you and show them that you have their best interest in mind.
Doing this will not only bring you closer together, but also give a sense of security that someone has their back which can be an important emotion to cultivate when convincing someone they belong with you.
Show your commitment to them by consistently making time for them and meeting their needs. Demonstrate that you are willing to put in the effort it takes to make this relationship a priority. Communicate openly with them, build trust, and don’t keep secrets from one another.
Show your devotion through kind gestures and words that remind them of how much they mean to you. Demonstrating commitment can help convince someone that they belong with you.
Show your affection and care for them by carving out time in your schedule to have deeper conversations. Make sure you ask them questions about their day, and that you’re really listening to the answers.
Let them know how much they matter to you through physical touch, such as cuddling or holding hands during regular activities like going out to dinner. This can help make them feel secure in the relationship and help the two of you build a deeper connection with one another.
It’s essential to earn their trust and loyalty, especially if an issue of infidelity has been a problem in their past. Reassure them that you’re not going to stray or give them any reason to doubt you.
Show them through consistent behavior how much dedication you have for the relationship and that it matters to you immensely, as this will give them greater confidence in staying with you.
When it comes to listening and hearing another’s thoughts, someone who “gets” them is a sign of true connection. So, acknowledge and validate their feelings without judgment, criticism, or trying to change the conversation.
A person who respects them enough to accept each emotion that comes up without shame or blame is a good indicator of understanding and that you are someone meant for them in the long run.
A person who has another’s well-being in mind and is willing to work to make sure you both remain happy and content is a keeper. You’ll be one of the few that is open with your apologies when wrong, and willing to forgive their mistakes freely in order to maintain the relationship.
Your unconditional acceptance of them, free of blame or defense, shows a willingness to compromise and points towards a soul mate connection.
One of the clearest clues that they belong with you is when you continuously reassure them of your love and commitment. When you truly love them, you will never hesitate to open up about it, and will make sure that they know how special they are to you.
So, actively put in the effort and be consistent in your actions and words to show that there is no question of your love for them.
One of the strongest indicators that you are devoted to them is when you provide emotional and physical support during their difficult moments. You do this not out of obligation, but out of genuine care and love for them.
If you’re there for them with a hug or kind words when something has gone wrong, then it is a sign that you are ready to commit to the long run, and your future life plan involves being together with them. By being a reliable support for them, you are showing that you want them in all of life’s seasons, both happy ones and hard ones, which speaks volumes about your loyalty.
It takes a special kind of person to want to build a future with someone and invest in the relationship beyond just enjoying each other’s presence. When another can feel that you are looking ahead to the future for both of you instead of merely living in the moment, they will know that you understand what it means to be devoted. You will be seen as the type who will stay even when things get hard, who actually puts time and energy into being together, and who wants to work towards a long-term relationship.
You’re truly a “Keeper” in their book.
I’m Lori Stith, The Stoicess
Your Christian Life Coach
AND I believe in YOU!
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